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A few months ago I got engaged. My fiance and I live in the same city. We live in Belgium
I always talk to my fiance by phone aur msn
He wants that we should go out together
What you guys think abt it? Should I go with him?

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what do u wanna do yrself ??

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i dont know
thats why i asked advise

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I see absolutely nothing wrong with meeting for coffe and a chat. Or a nice lunch and a nice chat. But heck, I'm a gori. Even so, if you want to know the man you are to marry prior to your marriage, I see no other way and I really dont see that there are any huge barriers being broken here...I mean, you;re engaged right? So if you want to meet for coffee and a chat I'm all for it.

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if u're the one who has to deciede this , plus he's insisting than u should go ..........
but if yr families r involved in this ( if it's an arranged rishta) than u need to figure out their point of view about that

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our rishta was arranged, but we do like each other very much
and as far as our families concern, they are very conservative, my parents will never allow it that i meet him

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if u go n ur mother n father get to know about it im sure they wont be happy,ask ur mother if she can help u over this

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meri bhi marzi thi, you know ideal situation

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that means u can discuss this with mom,ask her she ll tell u exactly whats rite

Time pass
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All the ideas and thinking style can be conveyed over internet and phone. Or he can come over to your house and you guys can sit and chitchat … off course in a separate room … Or he can ask your parents and can take you out for dinner or lunch.

Means there can be 100 other possibilities that you guys can understand each other

But

Going out with out telling parents is quite devilish … :cb: … If i have a choice I might go for it … :jhanda:

~~~~ Congrats Uncle Ehsan on 45 K ~~~~
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Be careful, sometimes the rishta prospects play these games to test you out... to see if you'd go and do something behind your parents' back...if your parents are ok with it and know that you're with him, then by all means go... if not, then tell him that if he really wants to meet you and spend time with you, he should come over to your house or something....