Re: Urgent views/advice needed: Marriage Problem
I would assume that to be the first try.. I encouraged her to make an effort by being patient and strong and to keep doing right by his family however there are limits to this aswell. Islam mein bhi likha he ke allah saza zulm denay walay ko bhi deta hai aur senay walay ko bhi... If shes being mistreated she should NOT stand up for it. Im not saying she should be disrespectful but if his family are not being genuine towards her she should move out with her husband because she'll never b happy
Some people you can win over, some u cant.
If she tries doing what you said and it doesnt work what is she to do? she's not left with many other options is she? Its not like the parents NEED looking after, if they were really old and in need of lookin gafter then i wouldnt advise her to move, but they seem healthy (assuming as nothing is mentioned regarding this) and so she should, when she can, try and move out. she doesnt have to move far, but own space is necessary and if she wants a harmonious relationship with her husband then this i think is the only solution