Re: Urgent views/advice needed: Marriage Problem
faari....it would be ideal for my friend to move out, but that seems remote. Her husband considers this a move to destroy the family bond and being the only son finds it hard to move out in the same country. He would be willing to move only if he gets a job outside the country so it appears like valid living away from parents.
The tension between the couple, their fights and disagreements have not been made known to the husband's parents....all the shouting/yelling/breaking happens in closed doors....in fact my friend feels that if his parents get to know they fight then this could be further exploited by the parents and taken against her. so she finds it even more difficult to smile in front of them and put a happy face while she is deeply hurt inside.
The husband hasn't started saving....since he is not left with anything to save or provide. he realises his mistakes but doesnt have the face to tell his parents what he is facing. he asks her to be patient and that it would get better SOMEDAY! My friend doesnt really care if he gives her money or not, but is concerned and hurt that he has been taken for granted in his own family but still complains his wife of not being the "bahu" his parents would have wished for....