i agree with boyee in this issue.
i think she is using the concept of haq mehr to a different level, which no is not common in pakistan, yeah maybe with the very wealthy. Haq mehr is the money given to the girl at teh time of the nikah, couple of hundred maybe.
just beware at the fact that she is probably tryin to take control of everythin before she even gets her.... just be careful.
im not dissing girls from pakistan so dont take me wrong anyone, but i have had alot of experience with some and all i can say is they always seem to think 2 steps ahead so just watch ur own back.
ps: leave it to ur parents as they will have alot more experience and wud deal with it better
I think leaving it to the parents is the best solution. Is it wrong to do that? I would prefer both parents decide on it.