Asallam O Aliqume
Hum loog apnay bhai ka rishta kar rahay hai aur jis kay ghar kaar rahay hai uskay parents aur larki sub raazi hai lakin chaachay, phoopho, aur daadi khush nehi hai iss rishtay say woh loog nehi chahtay kay us ka rishta kisi achi jaga ho jaye bcz uski maa kay sath un ki nehi banti for some reason aur saab ko yeh be maloom hai kay uskay chacha,phopho or daadi ghalat hai woh hi uski maa kay sath ziyadti kartay hai tu woh kabhi haan nehi honay day gay ager app logo ko koi wazeefa ya dua pata hoo jiss say parnay say sub haan kar day aur raazi hoo jaye k hum loog baat karay tu woh haan kar day. woh loog nehi chahtay kay unki beeti ki achi jaga magni hoo.
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reply plz
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still waitting
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**aap log aisa kiuN samajhte haiN k har kaam ke liye du'aa paRhii jaaye to vo kaam ho jaayegaa? du'aa kii sharaa'it meN se sab se pahli yeh shart hotii hai k banda yeh kahe k yaa Allah agar hamaare Haq meN aisaa bahtar ho to hii hamaaraa yeh kaam kar de. ham terii razaa meN Khush haiN...du'aa se kia Allah ko "majboor" karnaa maqsood hotaa hai? hargiz nahiiN!...du'aa aap apne dil se kareN...aisii du'aa kaa koii faa'ida nahiiN jo mahez ek jaadoo kii paRiyaa samajh ke kiyaa jaaye. aap jaise bhii maang saktii haiN du'aa vaise hii maaNgeN...Qur'aan aur aHaadees 'amal karne ke liye haiN na k use gale men ta'veez banaa kar Taangnaa yaa use paRh paRh kar apni jaaiz yaa naa-jaaiz guzaarishaat Allah se manvaane kii koshish kii jarnaa...
...jahaN tak aapke masle kaa ta'alluq hai to laRkii, laRke aur laRkii ke maaN baap kii razaa asl razaa hai...baaqii kia sochte haiN vo unkii problem hai aur unkii rezaa shar'an zaroorii nahiiN. **
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beta larki say shadi karni hay agar us kay maa baap razi hay ya agar maa razi hay to shadi kar loo warna dadi or chacha waigra us ki zindagi tabah kar day gay
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Allah se dua karein ke jo ap ke bhai aur us larki ke haq main behter ho wohi ho...... Aur sub kuch Allah per chor dein. Aur Allah hamesha wohi karta hai jo hamare haq main behter hota hai.
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if other ppl are creating problems,maybe the parents arent that interested as when the girl and her parents are willing they never worry about other ppl..make dua for betterment and accept allah's will...in the long run this rishta might not be better for you..
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Asallam O Aliqume Hum loog apnay bhai ka rishta kar rahay hai aur jis kay ghar kaar rahay hai uskay parents aur larki sub raazi hai lakin chaachay, phoopho, aur daadi khush nehi hai iss rishtay say woh loog nehi chahtay kay us ka rishta kisi achi jaga ho jaye bcz uski maa kay sath un ki nehi banti for some reason aur saab ko yeh be maloom hai kay uskay chacha,phopho or daadi ghalat hai woh hi uski maa kay sath ziyadti kartay hai tu woh kabhi haan nehi honay day gay ager app logo ko koi wazeefa ya dua pata hoo jiss say parnay say sub haan kar day aur raazi hoo jaye k hum loog baat karay tu woh haan kar day. woh loog nehi chahtay kay unki beeti ki achi jaga magni hoo.
to be very honest if both the parents and girl are happy with your brothers rishta then they should go ahead with the marriage. larki ke maa baap...dadi, chacha. phuppo etc ko sirf ek daffa batain ke humne yahan shaadi pakki ker di hai. chahe daddi etc khush hon ya na hon larki ke maa baap tumhare bhai ke saath shaadi ker dain.
on the other hand ghar wale sab mil ker darood-e-tanjeena parho aur sache dil se dua karo.
all the best
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[note]Mere khiyal se yeh thread is section mein ziyada behtar hy[/note]
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ager chaachay, phoopho, aur daadi razi nahi tu aaap apney bhai k rishta SRIF uss lerkee sai hee ker deen?
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^ 
The parents should take up a stand for their daughter’s better future.
Secondly, I don’t see why are those three figures so important in the decision-making process. The final decision should be among the daughter and the parents. One of you (from the larka’s side) should discuss this with the girl, so she can put some sense into her parents and ask them to make a decision only keeping her happiness in their minds. And also those three family figures shouldn’t even be taken into consideration, esp when everyone knows that they don’t want the girl to be happy.
and do we really need a wazifa for this…
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The use of full stops is highly underrated :(
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Wait, why cant your brother get married again?
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The whole issue is stupid.
Phoopo, chacha, yeh laug kyoon beech main dakhal de rahain hain? Aur kya larki k parents khud itnay kamzor aur stupid hain k woh khaandan k har fard ki razamandi le kar hi shaadi karvain ge? Yeh phoopo/chacha/dadi jo itna shor macha rahay hain.......farz karo k un sab ki pasand k larkay se shadi ho.......to shadi main agar koi problems hon.....to yeh teen laug to nahin madad karain ge.
Dua maangne k saath banday ko khud bhi ko stand/action lena chahiye. Problem is that parents k paas koi confidence nahin hai. Zaroori to nahin hai k har faisla pooray khaandan ki marzi k mutabiq ho. Agar aisi soch hai...to phir issi tarha ki problems create hoti hain. I think dua/wazeefay se ziyaada the larki's parents need aqal and confidence.
I can just imagine that in the future....there's gonna be an argument that their beti had a kaaka.....and dadi/phoopo/chacha is naaraz that she didn't name the baby according to their wishes. While I understand it's difficult to deal with an angry parent, older sibling, etc..........both parties are pathetic. I wouldn't be surprised if the girl's parents seek the family's approval for other things as well. You set yourself up for problems when you do that.....and it makes matters worse when the other party are a bunch of meddling control freaks.
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QFT!!!..
but wait…aren’t most issues like this?/
P.S…the OP asked for a wazeefa…not advice 
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app k bhai istakhara kerin k un ka rishta us larki k leya jayea ya nahi. may be that girl turn out be exact of her dadi-phupi-chachaa's word.
besides no matter how many wazifa you do, the things which are not your fate you will never get them. so what you need is to have a blind faith on ALLAH SWT that He SWT will grant you the best of the best since you always try to do best with others and for others.
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Nomi, do you really think that a wazeefa is going to cure the root of the problem? I believe in making dua and all…but the root of the problems (IMO) is the parents of the girl. The extended relatives can give suggestions and opinions but they have no right to impose their decisions on them. And if the girl’s parents are postponing their plans because some relatives (whom they don’t even get along with) are against the rishta…then that makes me wonder if they’re the kind to seek kaandan approval for every single issue.
The relatives (if they’re the meddling, bitter, jealous, control-freak type) will never be happy. They’ll always have something to complain about even if you do try to please them.
Today it’s the issue of a shaadi…tomorrow it’ll be something else. They can’t be changed…the parents of the girl need to strengthen themselves. Instead of praying for the relatives to become raazi and happy with every decision you undertake…it’d be better if they pray for some strength and confidence.
Honestly, if the girl’s extended family is soooo involved in every affair and if they impose and hold grudges…I sympathize with the guy who wants to marry her…cuz there’s a chance he’ll have to deal with frequent drama later on as well (after marriage…it if even takes place).
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Nomi, do you really think that a wazeefa is going to cure the root of the problem?
i was merely pointing out what the thread starter had asked for..
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I don't know about dada/dadi, but agar parents yaha rishta karna chahtiye hain, they will do it. Phopho chachaaye etc. shouldn't be such a pain, they will accept it eventually.
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i was merely pointing out what the thread starter had asked for..
And I am aware that the OP asked for wazeefay/duas. I just think that the issue is much more deeper and complex than that and it would take a lot more than just duas to sort it out.