my friend invited me to bridal shower and her wedding events.
i will be giving her those bath beyond stuff on her bridal shower.
so do i also have to give her cash on her wedding, considering the fact that i am single and no one else invited from my home? or is it too auntish?
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:hinna:
Yes - you are required to gift twice (and in fact thrice if you were invited to and brought a gift to the engagement party as well).
You don’t need to give cash (unless it’s one of those “no boxed gifts” cards. Any token of your esteem will be appreciated…
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well i already gave her on engagement…so it will make it thrice…i think i wont give anything on wedding 
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^^ how abt a small gift on the wedding...?
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Lol u are definitely supposed to gift her on her wedding.. Regardless if you've given gifts on the other occasions, the wedding day is actually most important i think. Obvi its your choice to give her a gift or not but... You SHOULD!
Pull out your wallet! :)
Lol u are definitely supposed to gift her on her wedding.. Regardless if you've given gifts on the other occasions, the wedding day is actually most important i think. Obvi its your choice to give her a gift or not but... You SHOULD!
Pull out your wallet! :)
Agreed !
No, you should give according to what you can afford.
The bridal shower gift should suffice! Don't worry about the world, it's you who'd have to foot the bill!
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I think you are supposed to give her a gift for the wedding as well, but dont go beyond your means. Give her what you can afford. If she is your real friend, she will know and understand. When my friend got married, I not only gave her a bridal shower gift, but I threw and paid for the shower, I gave her an engagement gift, and then I gave her money for her wedding too, and I was single then. But I stayed within my means of what I could afford.