ur opinion

actually I hv 2 questions and need ur suggestions?
I am anganged girl.
first after engagement should a girl eidi to her finance or no?
Second give me option wt gift i send to him?
my BIL has given the inter exam so wt do i give him on his success?

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Your family supposed to give eidi to your future spouse.

no idea of second question.

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Do you contact your fiance ie email, chat, phone?

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gifts may be exchanged between families and privately between fiance and fiancee :)

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Yes give him eidi , Khoshi ka mouqa hay kion nahi ?
Give a new bike to BIL , he can use it to go to his college.

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girl's are supposed to GET eidi......not give it

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well we don't talk to each other. so better no give that i hv thought. Best option for BIL?

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haaaaaaaaaaaa must give if i was the daughter of a landlord person;).

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In that case ask your bill to give you eidi. Larkay walay laraki ko eidi deetay hain aur larakee walay larkay ko.

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BiL will not but yah parents exchange.

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I think it depends on your individual situation.. how close you are, if it was love or arranged etc..