Upset

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Re: Upset

@khawateen

No nooooo…dont say dua karein… Thats a xlear sigh of issues right there…to a nosey mil and aunties in any case

Tell her to talk to her son…as its not only dependant on u. The mere thought of having baby making talk with her ladla will have her going into chup mode.

U have been dirct with her…hasnt helped and u are feeling upset… So be more upfront ..

The next time she says blah blah had a baby… Just be a ditz and in ure most matter of fact voice..add

Haan tho kaam poora kara hoga na thakay bacha hojaye… Himein bacha nahi chahiya tho hum kaam adhoora kerahain hain.

Said this to a very very nosey aunty after countless times of telling her we were waiting to have a baby

She never asked again…got so embatassed…tried saving ot by saying…chalo, as long as there is nothing wrong…wait kera hay ho tho phir sahi hai.

Retsrd…couldnt get it in simple words

@angel25

Thanks everyone for the advise..yes my husband have told her several times that he don’t want a kid until he is financially settled. But then she would say bacha apne rizq dunya main khud laye ga.

In one ear and out the other woman…