I know we want to get something nice and of our choice but gal you are just complicating ur life gal for nothing.....u should think abt all those girls who have major problems with their inlaws n who dont respect them infact they expect so much from them and they themself dont do anything to appreciate what their 'baho' is doing for them.
All i am gona say is you should accept the gifts as they are given for the token of love. How can u judge some1's intention by valuing the gifts. Maybe they can't afford to buy you all the brand name outfits or buy you exactly the things that you like. You do understand that everyone's likes and dislikes are not the same. It is also possible that they dont know your choice and the gifts that you are getting is their choice.
This hadith is alone can support what we all are saying.
Narrated Abu Huraira: **The Prophet said, "O Muslim women! None of you should look down upon the gift sent by her she-neighbour even if it were the trotters of the sheep (fleshless part of legs)." **