Re: Untraditional wedding
Have a snack bar or provide appetizers at the very beginning of the wedding, for all the people who get there early; and also to avoid a hungry crowd.
Have many buffet tables instead of one, where everyone and their mom crams in. Space the buffet tables across the hall to minimize crowding.
Have assigned seats, so people are not snatching each others' seats.
Have dinner delivered to the table by waiters/waitresses.
Have the couple do a dance together.
Have the hubby make a speech to his new wife.
Yeah, stuff like that. You know. Have a NORMAL wedding.