**I have no other tension BIGGER (with a Capital B) than this one, seriously…
Like at my engagement, they tied my hair in a way that they back-combed them and then sprayed… and when I was off with the function it tooook me hours to un-tie… and by the end mid of the process, I literally started crying!
I even applied full bottle of conditioner, oils, etc etc…
Any suggestions!
And by the way, what is the best time to un-tie them… Riht after when you changed your dress? (keeping in mind it took tooo long) or after the night is over… because taking bath and washing them again and again is too exhausting!
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Dont worry, you’re not alone Just dont start crying on your wedding night as well, you poor thing! I dont know if you can wait to undo your hair till the next morning, will you be able to lie down comfortably with your hair up like that? Ask your hubby to help you take out all the pins and then just try to flatten it down as much as you can. I say dont bother with washing till the next morning
The thread you've referred is helping much (lemme read it full first).... Butttttt even if HE is helping, he can only help in taking out the pins... rest I have the remove all that tangles myself... I can do it, but couldnt if someone is waiting out!
relax. let him help u get all the pins out. and then when u go to get changed and shower , dont use shampoo at all.. only use conditioner .. it should ease ure tnagles out like that.. dont even touch the comb! just loosen ure hairstyle with ure fingers and wet ure hair and apply conditioner.. mine came out like THAT.
as for waiting... erm.. poori zindagi intezaar kara hai.. im sure 30 mins wont hurt him. im sure he will want to get outta his clothes and change and freshen up too.. whilst u will be waiting... so its all good...
The thread you've referred is helping much (lemme read it full first).... Butttttt even if HE is helping, he can only help in taking out the pins... rest I have the remove all that tangles myself... I can do it, but couldnt if someone is waiting out!
The best thing is to untangle with a ballpoint pen. yes a ball point pen. It takes a long time but I have trie dit after being told by a salon owner and it worked. Better to tell teh hair stylist though not to do a lot of back combing and not use lots of hair spray. Good luck.
Ugh girl tell me about it all 3 of my events I had my hair like that and the worst part was undoing it all in the end. First I took out all 3857395 pins then I let me arms relax lol
Seriously conditioner works and untangle it loosely. Be patient and if your that against this hairdo to begin with then why get it done for your wedding?
Just use a wide comb and a conditioner =) it will solve u're problem! Just take out all the pins and run thru with the conditioner and then the wide-tooth comb. Wash out u're hair..
The best way to do it is to take out all the pins, bend your head down, flip your hair over and ask someone to take the tangles out while your hair is DRY (or you can do it yourself but your arms and neck will begin aching. Once you wet your hair the tangles will stay and will pull your hair out once you try to comb it. Once you have taken out most of the tangles, then go take a shower and use only conditioner.
I have no other tension BIGGER (with a Capital B) than this one, seriously...
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If its such a big tension then maybe its better to just make sure your hairstylist doesnt do backcombing and a big fancy updo using alot of hairspray. Depends on your hair, your look, your dress etc, but some girls pull off an open hair look so fantastically. Like you could have your hair pulled to one side with loose curls or something. At least this will make it much easier for you on your night and allow you to relax more and enjoy yourself!
lol poor thing, there is no easy way out of this other than be mentally prepared for the task.
You will need a wide tooth comb or a soft brush, take the pins out and start taking the back combing out starting from the ends working towards the roots.
Never the other way around as it will result in tears.
Allah ji.. this thread reminds me of the dire consequences my husband had to suffer after i took off my jewellery.. the poor guy sat there taking out my hair pins and i untangled my very majorly backcombed hair.. cuz my dupatta was very very heavy..
that way i didnt get tired and they were loose enough that I took a shower and used a wide toothed comb later on to take out watever was left over.. it wasnt that painful, but had i done it myself.. i think i wudve just left the backcombing the way it was and askd my stylist to work with it on the valima..
the things we go thru to look PRETTY!!!!
**Kher i am pretty used to of handling tangled hair (my hair are curly)... but the NIGHTMARE of backcombed hair with lotssss of gels and sprays meks me remind of the engagement day...
thankew sooo mcuh ALL for all your sincere advices:)
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Just dont start crying on your wedding night as well, you poor thing! I dont know if you can wait to undo your hair till the next morning, will you be able to lie down comfortably with your hair up like that? Ask your hubby to help you take out all the pins and then just try to flatten it down as much as you can. I say dont bother with washing till the next morning