unsure men

it is common that a man who you thought likedyou, becomes undecided all of a sudden and totally forgets that he ever came so close?

what could be his motives
& what will be just to him?

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The thought process is subjective and mostly reflection of our own needs.

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fair enough Witch dr.

fair enough...

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I fear in trying to be fair, I am not being insensitive and unfair to others.

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...sometimes there are unsure women.

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^ from my observations....this seems like a more commen scenario.

ps...dushwari....why dont u have a journal? I think ur journal would be an interesting read ...you should start one :)

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it is not about simply one person, jaanleva.

it is about so many women and men who miss out on good relationships due to one wrong idea or another.

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Can we say the same about women who miss out on good men and good relationships because of one wrong idea?

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You know its a very complicated thing rather then just a plain statement. You donot know what really went through his head..the interpersonal relationship and the environment,...just so many things play a role in a relationship rather then just a plain answer as to why he did wat he did

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Very vague scenario mentioned...sometimes though half the fun is getting there...once your there it might not be so special...

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nbn, i'd say that you would have no problem in exchanging places with someone in such a situation. then, you can have all the fun you could ever imagine.

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i have seen more girls do this thing than guys.. just my observations & experience

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some ppl do it for the sheer excitement of pursuing someone to prove and/or show off to friends that they can get what they want... once they attain it its no longer exciting or valuable to them

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jo hota hai honay do.jo qismat main ho ga wo mil jaaiy ga otherwise sochnay se kia faida?

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auratain ye nahi kar sakti na… un ko baat ke chidey nikaalne hain, phir baat ki khichri banani hai, phir baat ko dow char din basi hone dena hai phir baat ko hazam karney ki koshish karni hai phir ja ke wo hazam to nahi hoti par ulti bun jati hai.:snooty:

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bari knowledge hai aap ko aurtoon ki.:naraz:

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merey kaan aur meri ankhain akser khuli hoti hain jub ye **circus **ghar main ati hai... knowledge phir esey ubarta hai na ke kuch na poocho.

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phir tu ye kehain u luv girly talk

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**Circus **girlie talk nahi hoti. Girlie talk wo hoti hai jo dow ya us se ziada GIRLS main rahey. ;)

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JaanLeva...
Quite bitter i see...

Dushwari...
Somehow i get the impression that in your world girls make all the effort to make things work and it forever men that prevent this...let me tell you life isnt that black and white...
As for your question...who is to say that hasnt happened to me...