What is the reason preventing/stopping you from getting married?
(posted as per the request of a guppy)
well what if it’s all of the above?
as in the age, the money, education and that i still haven’t found the right person?
I don’t know about others but for me it’s not just one thing that’s stopping me but all of the above. I don’t think im mature enough to hold that big of a responsibility and well money wise too not stable yet
and the issue of education well going by the major i have chosen it’s gonna take me 5 yrs Inshallah and I want to finish my studies first and then get into all this stuff cuz personally i kno i won’t be able to get through it like that
and last but not least, finding the right partner..not that he has to be perfect but should be someone i want and think is interesting instead of just gettin married to whomever and thinking may b juz may b it mite work…
let’s see how far this gets me though 
but as of right now i don’t even wana think bout dis stuff 
For me, it's education...I'm still in the middle of completing my bachelor's degree and might also go for master's but that's gonna be after I get married, inshAllah...:)
For me, it is Education, Age , and finding a right partner
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For me, it is Education, Age , and finding a right partner
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-ditto-
Option #4 seems to be pervasive over ALL others. But well, what do I know. Haven't been in this boat for a while now. :-P
ps. No, I did not vote either. :-P x2
interesting,
Where's the option I am ready any minute but the parents want to wait for a little while? :-p
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Where's the option **I am ready any minute but the parents want to wait for a little while*? :-p
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well they must have a reason for waiting or are they being insensible?
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*Originally posted by mahnoor@lahore: *
For me, it is Education, Age , and finding a right partner
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you sure thats the reason you are not married yet?
I think its more like, your parents dont want to get rid of you yet. keep your fingers crossed you'll get arranged soon :)
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well they must have a reason for waiting or are they being insensible?
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In other words, I meant "Although I am young and eager to get married, parents want me to wait til I finish university and get a real job". In other words, I was not being serious, I was joking.
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In other words, I meant "Although I am young and eager to get married, parents want me to wait til I finish university and get a real job". In other words, I was not being serious, I was joking.
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Umm is that bad if you don't have a job yet and are still in university but what to get married? Me and my fiance are in that position, both wanna get married but he is still in school so our parents want us to wait.
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interesting ...
I want to complete my education............baqi sub tayaar hay.....inshallah this december.. :)
and where is MY OPTION 
“Puraanay jhagRay between the two families”…(Zaalim Samaaj)
i dont want to mary 
i wanna be free 
I wana marry; I dont want to be free. I will marry in near future inshallah.
Irem: Delay in marriage without any proper reason is very much disliked in religion. And also it is unheathy thinking.
If you look at it from our (young people who want to get married) point of view, it’s not THAT big deal but it really is. Guy or his family may be able to provide everything the girl wants after marrying in an early age but ofcourse girls’ parents want more. They want the guy to have a REAL job, they want him to be independent so he could keep their “naazon sey pali shehzadi” happy and provide her whatever she points on. :rotato: I would like to do this too. Imagine your wife asks you for something and you don’t have enough money to go buy it for her, you go to your parents and ask for some money so you could buy your wife that something. lol
What if I'm engaged? Just waiting till December.