Not all of their fathers can be that bad to have driven women into total hatred for men!
Of course htis outlook depends all on your relationship wiht the men in your family,your dad brother grandfather etc.. EIther consciously or subconsciously, you base your view of men on what you're raised with.
Sometimes if the relationship(s) was/were too good, then the woman might feel that no man can ever live up to her father, and there's no point in searching for any of thsoe same qualities. Then again, more commonly, if your dad wasn't all that and a bag of chips then that does have a really bad effect on you, affecting the way you see yourself and your outlook on men and relationships.
MM, evaluate your relationship wiht your dad, and find out why you feel the way you feel.
there's my psychoanalyzation
Also, please dont marry another man and make his life a living hell. Most men deserve better.
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Riddle me this. All you women find men to be scum. Yet you will do anything for one even if he beats you. What is up with that? With all this male bashing do you actually expect to get husbands?
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You talking to me CM?
Nah to women in general. Seriously everybody here seems to think men are scum. They all play with female feelings and dont want to commit. Yet you lot expect to find the once nice guy out of a billion who will marr you. Where is the logic in that? You bash men yet cant live without them. This in general to all women not just you LK.
Hey... CM..chill man...yeh so maybe more chicks get dumped this time of year...so we're a lil regertful and a tad cheezed off and we don't forget easily. We all like to blame the other if things don;t work out and very often women themselves set themselves up for the fall.
So we bash men..verbally...that's all we can do...stereotype and insult to cover up a broken heart and broken bonds of trust.
I wonder how many of male-bashers here were dumped this year.
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*Originally posted by fallenpieta: *
I wonder how many of male-bashers here were dumped this year.
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I was I was... not once, not twice, but thrice (actually only the last time counts..coz I actually "fell" for the guy).. but it's okie..gotta get up and try again :D
did it hurt when you fell?
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*Originally posted by fallenpieta: *
did it hurt when you fell?
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Badly...coz he pretended to fall too..only he didn't :(
HA!
Firstly i'd like to apologise to anybody (male and female) who took offence to my opinons and comments.
I honesty did not start this thread to do any "male bashing" of any kind.
and yes i have had very bad experiances with men...almost all the men in my family in fact, however, i dont think this is the right place or setting for me to discuss any of my personal life encounters as they not that pleasant.
I only wanted some advice not for my opinon to be taken the wrong way..and for that i really truly am sorry
I aint been a member for long so im not very aware of what issues one can and cannot discuss
i do apologise..
p.s will someone tell me how to go about getting someone to delete this thread as i am not too happy with all the hatred aimed at me now!!!
MM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU'VE FINALLY MADE SENSE!!!! THANK U THANK U THANK U !!!
HAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!
THERE YOU GO ALL U MALE-BASHING FEMALES! IN YOUR FACE!
I am really sorry that some men caused you pain but, and believe, not every man is like that. My father, he is almost 60, still talks to my mother as if they were newly weds. I really hope you find someone who'll treat you like you deserve to be treated. Ameen.
awwwwwwwwww that’s so sweet!!!
my dad’s not perfect, no one is, but i luv him. i just hope ill find someone who’ll love me as much as my dad does 
my father is good to me because he is my father.
if you pit my father against anyone who is not his family...things can get ugly.
My mom used to get irritated at him before marriage - used to complain that he was too stingy - wouldn't even take her out for ice cream.
MM - I'm so sorry to hear that so many men you have encountered have been bad. But rest assured that they aren't all like that. InshAllah you will find one that interests, excites, cares for, encourages, supports, respects, and loves you -- and for whom you can return such feelings.
Hey I am looking for a woman. Any women looking for a nice man?
i am 
Thats one, anyone else????????????? I am allowed 4!!!!!!!!!!
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Thats one, anyone else????????????? I am allowed 4!!!!!!!!!!
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don't be so greedy, you can barely find one!!