unhealthy

Lifestyle Relationships
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Do u think its unhealthy to hate men so much?

I know i have to marry one someday..so maybes i may change my attitude..but right now and practically all me life iv always hated men..at the age of 13 i drew up a contract for both me parents to sign saying i was never allowed to marry!! i still have it..i even framed it

Lately, ppl keep telling me to stop being so hateful..but i cant ..i dont get how to

Do u just wake up one day..saying " yeh u know wot im gona stop hating men!!"???

How does one undo their feminism???

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How old are you dearie?

They (men) do have some benefits, like opening bottle caps, killing bugs and moving furniture etc.

On a serious note, its just a phase (maybe a bit longer in your case) and it will pass once you get more knowledge. Don't fret!

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Men are better than you women. You lot are just jealous. Man this thread has so much potential :D

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CM jigar, u just have one stock answer for all threads? Come up with some variety man.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by TofiBaba: *
How old are you dearie?

They (men) do have some benefits, like opening bottle caps, killing bugs and moving furniture etc.

On a serious note, its just a phase (maybe a bit longer in your case) and it will pass once you get more knowledge. Don't fret!
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Im 22..i can open bottle caps and kill bugs meself..not that i do kill bugs..they so cute

but seriously...how do i get knowledge..when i dont give men a chance..wen i try and be friendly to "them" they always take it the wrong way then i have to slap them...

i think theres something seriously wrong with me..and dnt suggest therapy..been there done that..

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Miss M its ok.Good men are rare.:o We dont blame you, its the men.

TofiBaba-- I do agree with that.Actually yes men are good when you need bugs killed and so on.

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Us chauvinists have a one track mind. But hey atleast we know what is right.

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*Originally posted by CM: *
Men are better than you women. You lot are just jealous. Man this thread has so much potential :D
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i never sed women were better than men...this is ur problem u read it the wrong way..only understood wot u wanted to...eesh..typical boy!

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Considering that you can't go thru life isolated in your own sex, I would suggest meeting some men. If you are just speaking to them to know "man"kind then tell them upfront what you don't want and you should be fine. Some of us (doesn't matter how small the quantity) still do think about things other than what you would slap them for. So a little patience is required. Men and women see the same thing differently.

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*Originally posted by Muslim_Queen: *
Miss M its ok.Good men are rare.:o We dont blame you, its the men.

TofiBaba-- I do agree with that.Actually yes men are good when you need bugs killed and so on.
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Mis-information. You remind me of Hitler's propoganda minister. Such lies are haram. You know that. I can name very many good men.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by TofiBaba: *
Considering that you can't go thru life isolated in your own sex, I would suggest meeting some men. If you are just speaking to them to know "man"kind then tell them upfront what you don't want and you should be fine. Some of us (doesn't matter how small the quantity) still do think about things other than what you would slap them for. So a little patience is required. Men and women see the same thing differently.
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i get wot ur saying..ur right..but the men i tend to meet are all either married, too young, gay or wrong religion... and these are the type of men i am attracted to so i dont care much for meeting the right man...plus how the feck am i meant to meet a man??!

i try soo very hard to better myself but i can't!!!!

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by CM: *

Mis-information. You remind me of Hitler's propoganda minister. Such lies are haram. You know that. I can name very many good men.
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Sweet little me reminds you of Hitlers men? such a shame.Just because you dont like hearing the facts about your gender, doesnt mean Im lying.I can also name good men.I said they were rare not extinct.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Miss_Mohabbat: *

i get wot ur saying..ur right..but the men i tend to meet are all either married, too young, gay or wrong religion... and these are the type of men i am attracted to so i dont care much for meeting the right man...plus how the feck am i meant to meet a man??!

i try soo very hard to better myself but i can't!!!!
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See now you are admitting to something, do u hear it? You are "attracted" to the wrong men. Iss mein Men ka kia kusoor. Meeting the right man is all about timing. Its true for all cultures. Sometimes it feels like its never gonna happen and then suddenly BANG!!!!
Your turn a corner and meet the man who you know you are going to grow old with.
Anyhow, till that corner just enjoy the different emotions you feel and explore your hatred. You may even be able to use this in the future.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by TofiBaba: *

See now you are admitting to something, do u hear it? You are "attracted" to the wrong men. Iss mein Men ka kia kusoor. Meeting the right man is all about timing. Its true for all cultures. Sometimes it feels like its never gonna happen and then suddenly BANG!!!!
Your turn a corner and meet the man who you know you are going to grow old with.
Anyhow, till that corner just enjoy the different emotions you feel and explore your hatred. You may even be able to use this in the future.
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yes im attracted to them..but i dnt make my feelings known..i still hate them deep down iv never once had anything nice to say about any man iv ever met!!

iv explored me hatred one too many times..its not so good chick trust me

and im nto saying that men are evil all im trying to say is that i want to knw how to get over hating..its my problem..i know that much

i didnt start this tread to belittle men i jus wanted a diversity of answers so i can re-evaluate me own thoughts

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[QUOTE]
Originally posted by Miss_Mohabbat: *
i didnt start this tread to belittle men i jus wanted **a diversity of answers* so i can re-evaluate me own thoughts
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Gotcha, so now that I have stated my opinion I'll rest and let others give their opinions.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by TofiBaba: *

Gotcha, so now that I have stated my opinion I'll rest and let others give their opinions.
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aww chick i didnt mean i dnt appriate wot ur saying..im just tryin to tell u that i know its my problem..

this is why i hate computers..giving opinions are so restricted as everything u write is open to interpretation...

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Re: unhealthy

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*Originally posted by Miss_Mohabbat: *

How does one undo their feminism?????
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FEMINISM???? NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!

I call this lesbianism

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by CM: *
Men are better than you women. You lot are just jealous. Man this thread has so much potential :D
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RIGHT ON BROTHER!!!

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*Originally posted by Muslim_Queen: *
Miss M its ok.Good men are rare.:o We dont blame you, its the men.

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RIGHT ON SISTER!!!

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Re: Re: unhealthy

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*Originally posted by fallenpieta: *

FEMINISM???? NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!

I call this lesbianism
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then i suggest u and ur naive thinking little brain cell do not respond to this thread ever again