Re: unhappy marriage.
hes just an informal guy, he prefers to stay home and not even go out with mates. even his dad asks me kay isse ghar say nikalo ( as in to go out and do something not stay at home like some housewife lol)
yeah he is always like this, everyone goes quiet around him, because hes so quiet and formal. ive seen my cosins husbands they all joke around in front of me to their wives, he calls her babes in front of me, and has a laugh and joke even at her expense, yes sometimes it can be odd, and i sued to think thank god my husband doesnt do all this in front of others, if i make bad food he wont say ewww in front of others, but tell me privatly, ive seen my cousins husband say infront of me eww whats this…
so i was thankful.
but now im annoyed at what i previously thought was nice. the fact that he gets angry, and is quietly angry and then has this horrible manner, i feel like i wish i had taken my time before saying yes. the thing that annoys me most is why cant he be all nice nice in fronf of others,make me feel special so everyone can see he loves me. he just acts so formal even to me infront of others.
anyway its the anger bit that bothers me, he just gets angry and never admits when hes wrong and never looks at himself, always points the finger.