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Mods, please re-name this thread "John Wayne Bobbit Scenario..."

I think women can only request it and if the husband does not approve you take him to court!

But husbands can give divorce without having to go to court.

Someone correct me if i'm worng.

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Other - I wont let her get away with it. I will make her life a living hell .

If i can love her to bits then surely i reserve the right to change the same 'love' into 'hatred' if or when i find out she is cheating on me. Simple really.

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Cheating is a defect in personality which is enough to make the other partner insecure all the time. I think its better to get rid of this situation and try to find someone who you can fully trust.

Forgiveness is definitely an option and totally depends on spouse's past and future behavior. But still its very hard to re-trust a person.

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THis is pretty simple...leave him.

i would probably do something similar..but it really depends on how far he went.

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I would bring out the duck-tape and secure him to the bed posts! I would then bring out my torture equipment! Hehe!

Seriously though, its an awful situation to be in. All that love, hope, trust shattered! I would leave him in an instant even if we had kids.