Re: Unfaithfulness, how can it be forgivable?
Actually, I disagree. Cheating is in someone’s fitrat. If you’re the type of person that can look at other women/men when you’re married and ACT on those intentions, then that’s YOU has a person. It takes a certain type of person to cross that boundary and destroy their lives and their SO’s life like that.
The cheating I’ve come across is more of the “always looking out for the next best/hottest/newest/youngest thing”. If that’s your mentality in regards to your relationships, then yes, that’s definitely a flaw in you as a person and something I can’t forgive.
I’m not saying everyone has to follow it. But that’s what I believe from what I’ve seen. And once that respect and trust in a relationship is gone, I’m out. If you can forgive it more power to you, but I would spend the rest of my life wondering if that girl he works with or my female friends or HIS female friends etc etc could be potentials for him to cheat with.