Unfaithfulness, how can it be forgivable?

[Muzna]

Re: Unfaithfulness, how can it be forgivable?

@Deeba1234

I understand what you’re saying and you’re right about people needing fulfilment but I feel some people (not you) are too quick to say the wife should change or accept if her husband is being unfaithful.. And saying “do it for the children” really irks me.. Firstly, are us women so worthless we should only exist for others’ happiness? And secondly as if kids are so stupid they don’t realise what’s going on.. Is this the way to bring up children, by lying and trying to cover things up? Is it good for our daughters to learn if husband cheats best just look the other way?

If the the other person is lacking in some way that’s still no justification to cheat imo.. If you really want to be with someone else there are solutions such as separation or even divorce, solutions which don’t involve lies and deceit.. No-one should feel they need to stay in a sham marriage..

It’s never good for either daughters or sons to learn to look the other way if their spouse cheats on them.
We may be willing to overlook a transgression for the sake of our children but if we teach our children to do the same, will we be able to watch them live through that pain or will we be the ones dragging them home by the ear if/when their spouses cheat on them?