Re: understanding
i think it depends on the kind of bond b/w the two.i saw this show on Dr.Phil where a couple appeared n when they wer asked basic questions abt each other they didn't know esp the husband.he didn't know where his wife was born n what was her mothers maiden name.So the more commitment n effort u put into each other the more easily u get to know each other.
About expectations u cannot get each n every answer right b4 u get married.they can change with time and situations.Ppl change their views change so does the expectations.