wat is meant by strong understanding in a couple?
is it compromise from both sides( wife n hubby).
is it only woman’s compromise to build up a strong relation to understand her hubby??
3)wat a wife should do on her behalf to hv a gud understanding wid her hubby?
Koi relationship understanding, trust, love, respect k bina nahi survive ker sakhti.I'll go with the no. 1 point. Both have to compromise. And understanding ka matlab bus compromise nahi hai..
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An uncle told me that when he and his wife are sitting in a gathering and he has to say something to her without anyone else knowing, he can do that with his eyes and she can reply likewise.
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^haan its true.. my devar/devarani are the same way.. they literally dont even have to say anything to one another! - however, its something thats built overtime.. trust, honesty and really trying to get to know someone helps -
as far as who compromises more and who does less is concerned, i think its a 2 way street.. sometimes the husband might need to and sometimes the wife might.. and yes wives usually do more because I find women are more emotionally inclined to needs and wants then men are - but it all depends on the issue aswell..
having said that compromise isnt always the solution to everything -
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I guess with any relationship, you need to nurture it. You can not always succumb to the demands or wishes of one party.
Take the analogy of a plant- you need to feed/water it, give it light, warmth, attention and get rid of any infestation which could potentially damage it and in doing all this you see the plant prosper and grow.
Same could be said of a relationship, you need to dedicate yourself to it. Compromise is only on aspect of any relationship. Trust, taking time out for one another, mutual respect are all attributes which can set good solid foundations.
kaka said it straight.
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as bill and ted said so wisely..
be excellent to each other
and party on dudes..
wat is meant by strong understanding in a couple?
1) is it compromise from both sides( wife n hubby).
2) is it only woman's compromise to build up a strong relation to understand her hubby??
3)wat a wife should do on her behalf to hv a gud understanding wid her hubby?
Strong understanding means they understand each other very well. So they wouldn't need word(s) to explain or tell about anything about their signifcant other or about things or relationship or anything.
Strong understanding doesn't need compromise if there is true love from each side.
Strong understanding can happen If both or one is genius or one is genius and other is compromising that way they will understand without saying.
Strong understanding can happen if both are compromising.
Strong understanding kay liaay dono taraf say dil say willing hon to ho sakta hai naheen to yaktarfa compromising say gari sirf ghaseeti jaa sakti hai.
Strong understanding kay liay sirf compromise hi naheen bohat say factor amal kartay hain.
What a wife can do?
Love his husband from dil se if she can't then do drama like indian drama queens.
Appriciate his all even small things or effort which he do to make you happy.
Jitna ziada say ziada husband ko khush rakh sakteen hain.
Tareef ka her koi bhooka hota hai so tareef karain.
Pasand kay khanain bana kay dain.
Always remain loyal and truthful to him and his family. (I know it's very hard)
Jitnay achchay kaam ho saktay hain karain.
Laikin sub kuch kar kay bhi 100% sacrifice kar kay by ya compromise kar kay bhi jis nain understanding naheen hona hota hai wo naheen hota hai.
Always pray to Allah kay uskay dil main aap ki mohabbat o ahmiaat daal day ameen.
Shohar wohi khush hota hai jis kay kahnay pay aap chalain gi. Khuwah agar wo aap ko ghalat rah par chalana chahay aur aap chalain to khush ho ga. Agar wo aap ko sahi raah pay chalana chahay aur uskay kahnay pay aap chalain to khush ho ga.
Ub depend karta hai kay aap kis tarha ki hain aur wo kis tarha ka. Aap uskay kahnay pay chalna chahti hain kay naheen.
Only Allah ki madad can help. I mean dua, dawa and amal.
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GR8 heera u r very true....i thing i wanna add here dat flexibility is very important in realtionship n to accept other as a human means a human can make also mistakes,,,wen u want to hv a perfect man or wife then dat is impossible n wen u only wana see only all positive then also not possible, ,,this is strange wen men want perfect n the most perfect wife n they even dont change their single habbit.
GR8 heera u r very true....i thing i wanna add here dat flexibility is very important in realtionship n to accept other as a human means a human can make also mistakes,,,wen u want to hv a perfect man or wife then dat is impossible n wen u only wana see only all positive then also not possible, ,,this is strange wen men want perfect n the most perfect wife n they even dont change their single habbit.
Thank you Horizon. Zindagi kay talkh tajarbon nain bohat kuch seekha dia hai aur aankhain khol deen hain.
Yeah horizon u r absolutely ryte! Dont know why man wants such compromising wives?
Because they are getting feed continuously from maashra, parents and history.
Slowly it's fading away. One day insha Allah it will fade but men will become joroo ka ghulam.
Most men are abnormal they can't walk on middle path.
Ya mama's boy bun jain gay ya joroo kay ghulam.
Right now gr8heera is in her girly phase.
wat is meant by strong understanding in a couple?
1) is it compromise from both sides( wife n hubby).
2) is it only woman's compromise to build up a strong relation to understand her hubby??
3)wat a wife should do on her behalf to hv a gud understanding wid her hubby?
There will NEVER be 100% understanding between couples!
If the girl is good - the guys has issues. If the guy is as good as you can find then the GIRL has issues.
So 100% compatibility is impossible!
^having said this - I am doubting my own self now !!!! heheh - cause i think hubby is good! BUT I AM GOOD TOO na! lol
There will NEVER be 100% understanding between couples!
If the girl is good - the guys has issues. If the guy is as good as you can find then the GIRL has issues.
So 100% compatibility is impossible!
^having said this - I am doubting my own self now !!!! heheh - cause i think hubby is good! BUT I AM GOOD TOO na! lol
Now you don't commit suicide as I'm disagreeing you.
Very few or rare cases of total 100% understanding also exist in thi non perfect world too.
Now tell me who is genius you or red.
Red is way more better than you. lol