**IF THEY DO NOT WANT WHAT YOU WANT, PLEASE TRY NOT TO TELL THEM THAT THEIR WANT IS WRONG
OR IF THEY BELIEVE OTHER THEN YOU, AT LEAST PAUSE BEFORE YOU CORRECT THEIR VIEW.
OR IF THEIR EMOTION IS LESS THEN YOURS, OR MORE, GIVEN THE SAME CIRCUMSTANCES, TRY NOT TO ASK THEM TO FEEL MORE STRONGLY OR WEEKLY
OR YET IF THEY ACT, IN THE MANNER OF YOUR DESIGN FOR ACTION, LET THEM BE.
THEY DO NOT, FOR THE MOMENT AT LEAST, ASK YOU TO UNDERSTAND THEM. THAT WILL COME ONLY WHEN YOU ARE WILLING TO GIVE UP CHANGING THEM INTO YOU.
IF YOU WILL ALLOW THEM ANY OF THEIR OWN WANTS, OR EMOTIONS, OR BELIEFS, OR ACTIONS, THEN YOU OPEN YOURSELF, SO THAT SOME DAY THESE WAYS OF THEIRS MIGHT NOT SEEM SO WRONG AND MIGHT FINALLY APPEAR RIGHT TO YOU AS RIGHT-FOR THEM.
TO PUT UP WITH THEM IS THE FIRST STEP TO UNDERSTANDING THEM. NOT THAT YOU EMBRACE THEIR WAYS AS RIGHT FOR YOU, BUT THAT YOU ARE NO LONGER IRRITATED OR DISAPPOINTED WITH THEM FOR THEIR SEEMING WAYWARDNESS.
AND IN UNDERSTANDING THEM YOU MIGHT COME TO A PRIZE THEIR DIFFERENCES FROM YOU, AND, FAR FROM SEEKING TO CHANGE THEM, PRESERVE AND EVEN NURTURE THOSE DIFFERENCES.
…tek hai g..
