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u have no understanding of the Quran.... there is a hadith that SPECIFICALLY describes this issue....but sorry i wont give it to u....
dont think u deserve to see it....
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yeah.. keep it.. i'd have tossed it out the window anyway.. for me Allah's word is enough. NONE CAN CHANGE HIS WORDS (6:115)
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Originally posted by inglandya_No.1:
There is nothing wrong with a bit of oral !! don't put the ummah off this delightful aspect of sex !!
**Oh goodness, you know how many times all of us have gone through the issue of oral sex ITS FORBIDDEN and yet we still have new comers saying that its ok to induldge on someones privates. Its suggested we all pick up a BOOK! concerned with what is allowed or not and atleast make an effort to ask a Imam/Scholar. Otherwise this argument is just a Catch 22.
Personally, I find the entire aspect of oral sex disgusting. There are so many factors that come into play which are health/cleanliness and more.
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Jitna Diya Sarkar Nay Mujko, Itni Meri Auqat Nahi, Yeh Saab Tumhara Karam Hai Aqa, Mujh Mein Aisi Koi Baat Nahin.
Love happens once . . .
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Originally posted by CocoNut:
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I agree with Coconut. Plus body fluids are naajaiz, and it's kinda tough to perform/receive oral sex without getting the fluids in your way. So by common sense oral sex would be a no no. Even though nothing has been said about it in Quran or hadeeth.
As for anal sex, it is explicitly not allowed according to hadeeth. If you want to go into details, I wouldn't mind taking this over to relogion forum. But then again there are some here who don't accept hadeeth at all so no point in arguing.
sex and religion together?? it kinda ruinds the mood doesnt it?
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stephie “sex is sex is sex”
why are you gonna stress over it? Sex is suppose to be fun and its suppose to get your mind to relax! not the other way around.
well thats how i feel about it. Do what ever you feel like doingo and i dont mean to be offensive to anyone here especially you shakir i mean sinsce it seems like you gotta do everything by the book im just expressing my opinion. No harm done.
Well Ngori_Ankhien, some say its fun others say its fun for a year or two then it dies out.
I've only heard so far.
I say the purpose of sex is to bring life/relief each other and in the progress have pleasure/fun.
Jitna Diya Sarkar Nay Mujko, Itni Meri Auqat Nahi, Yeh Saab Tumhara Karam Hai Aqa, Mujh Mein Aisi Koi Baat Nahin.
Love happens once . . .
I say the purpose of sex is to bring life/relief each other and in the progress have pleasure/fun.
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Dear Cocunut, things ai’nt that simple as you take, what about ppl who do’nt want more than one child, should they stop sex after the first child? or ppl who want to wait for few years before having child.
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I think Islam gives you principals of life not the every its and bits of it so it should not be dragged in every aspect>
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Originally posted by mm10: *Dear Cocunut, things ai'nt that simple as you take, what about ppl who do'nt want more than one child, should they stop sex after the first child? or ppl who want to wait for few years before having child. *
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That's why we have birth control.
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There is something called "hayaa", if you don't have it, do as you desire (not defender of anal though). Most of current generation Muslims (not to consider non-Muslims) have lost 'hayaa', thanks to "modernisation", availability of porn etc.
Once you have lost "hayaa", then there is not difference between you and animals.
May Allah SWT guide us all towards right and help us follow the right
Pakistani abroad that’s not funny. Islam prohibits anal sex.
The Ayah you quoted is about freedom to chose vagin*l sex in various positions as may be desired.
Anal sex nullifies the nikah so one must be very careful about it.
On the other hand oral sex is allowed in Islam.
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Originally posted by alizadeh2000:
**Pakistani abroad that's not funny. Islam prohibits anal sex.
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Not that I'm particularly interested, but when it comes to declarations like this.. can you back your statement up from the Qur'an?
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The Ayah you quoted is about freedom to chose vagin*l sex in various positions as may be desired.
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once again.. who gave anyone the authority to put the word '******l' in there?
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Anal sex nullifies the nikah so one must be very careful about it.
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excellent. once again.. have you read the Qur'an? does Allah say so anywhere??
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On the other hand oral sex is allowed in Islam.
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ooooh goooody.. and how did you arrive at this conclusion??
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Greek God Nike says .. Just do it !
Hey one more thing
These things are hard to explain
For some it seems strange... to swallow
The frontier of our minds
Is the last place we find
But maybe the first place we should go
Thats cool…but how???thats what the delimma shakir mian is facing
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Originally posted by PakistaniAbroad:
**if maulvees had their way with it. fornication would be allowed only from different rooms through some remote 'extenders'..
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
PakistaniAbroad, go ask an Islamic scholar and he'll confirm what I just told you.
This is common knowledge. Sadly u've been deprived.
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Originally posted by alizadeh2000:
**PakistaniAbroad, go ask an Islamic scholar and he'll confirm what I just told you.
This is common knowledge. Sadly u've been deprived.**
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s/he is in denial of any hadith, so you be careful because he is not. s/he will question any of your answers/responses but s/he will never answer the questions you pose to him/her
May Allah SWT guide us all towards right and help us follow the right