Re: Unconscious Grudges
I used to do this but not so much anymore, if you can't talk to the person because it will bring up other issues than come to terms with it yourself. Forgive and start over, perphas if it means giving another chance to the person (s) than do that. It's so sort of unfair to the other person because they don't know your holding the grudge, so either talk to them or make yourself realize your draining your own engery, which is never a good thing. I hope you get rid of the feeling.