Unconscious Grudges

Khumar · June 25, 2006, 2:53am

Is there such a thing?

If so, what’s the way to get rid of 'em? I mean, they are unconscious…you’re in denial about them.

AnGeL_EyEs · June 25, 2006, 3:00am

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then how do u know u have a grudge?

Khumar · June 25, 2006, 3:04am

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cause there is this feeling in your gut that you actions are due to a possible grudge.

AnGeL_EyEs · June 25, 2006, 3:08am

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perhaps talk it over with the person?

Sara516 · June 25, 2006, 3:15am

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hmm.. its complicated.. but I know how you feel..

There are some things i cant talk over or fix, just get over.

:hinna:

Khumar · June 25, 2006, 3:17am

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can't talk it over. will bring up wayyyyy too many things. just bugs me that i'm avoiding things because of this.

what ta do?

Sara516 · June 25, 2006, 3:18am

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Been there.

Get over it

Khumar · June 25, 2006, 3:23am

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thanks sara for the hug. but how do i get over it? and i wanna get over it soon...like tonight would be awesome.

belle · June 25, 2006, 3:31am

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I used to do this but not so much anymore, if you can't talk to the person because it will bring up other issues than come to terms with it yourself. Forgive and start over, perphas if it means giving another chance to the person (s) than do that. It's so sort of unfair to the other person because they don't know your holding the grudge, so either talk to them or make yourself realize your draining your own engery, which is never a good thing. I hope you get rid of the feeling.

Khumar · June 25, 2006, 3:39am

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makes sense...urghhh...it's still hard though. cuz if i talk about it to the other person, i know it's going to make me look like a loser and pathetic.

saimanyc · June 25, 2006, 7:20am

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talk to a shrink.

Shoor · June 25, 2006, 3:51pm

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Grudges?

you wish to get over them, you've taken the first step for doing so : )

Khumar · June 26, 2006, 3:42am

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i’m one in the making

shoor: really? hope the first step changes into a mile full of steps.

Shoor · June 26, 2006, 9:11am

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Sure. just make sure ur wearin the right shoes.

Khumar · June 27, 2006, 1:19am

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hehe...gotcha.

Crescent · June 27, 2006, 3:09am

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Run around ur street screaming :D! Arms in the air! Then come home and sleep. Trust me it'll go away.