Unbridled comments and opinions of your significant others

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How do you indicate that you are hurt by that thinking

a)would u seriously have a non-violent argument to understand each other
b)would u become anti-their opinion
c)in extreme cases, would u bad-mouth the significant other, openly
d)would you try to take a pledge from them that they never again say that
e) would u leave them

disclaimer:
i’ve been fortunate in this and no problems so far, Shukr Allah ka.

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Re: Unbridled comments and opinions of your significant others

Let me be the first one to reply here :wink:

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Re: Unbridled comments and opinions of your significant others

you can not force a person to feel the way you want him/her to feel. But you can surely express it. If such thing happens, what i do is to tell the other person that i felt bad about this thing and it hurts me, instead of keeping it inside and keep on fabricating stories out of it. The above mentioned points will only widen the gap between him/her. Dont reach a point where its do or die.

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Re: Unbridled comments and opinions of your significant others

uh?

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Re: Unbridled comments and opinions of your significant others

hm. NY MEY BOHAT ACHI BARISH HO RAHEE HEY, teize.
I WILL FIND PEACE IN THAT AND THEN THINK ABOUT REPLYING.

until that time, aap achey batchoo kee terhan perhein.

best,

madam.

~*~ Aik Buhat Masoon Sawal :) ~*~