Everyone knows the common/ standard questions when it comes to rishtas or introducing your significant other to your family:
What are some uncommon (and potentially beneficial) questions that could or should be asked?
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how involved is your sister and dog
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Will you be lunching with coworkers of the opposite sex?
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Can the guy afford a hairtransplant?
Can the girl afford a boobjob?
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does the guy own his own house or still a mommy's boy living with mommy?
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You should be asking, what should u observe. When you ask questions, usually people will tell you want they think you should hear. I would ask how many kids do they want, where would they like to live.
But best to do is observe, the other persons living envirment. Does this person live in a nice and clean house? If yes, then they will be more willing to want a nice clean house themselves. who are there neighboors? People who live together tend to have similar personalities. Look at the siblings, are they working people, are they well off? If so, you won't have to worry much about someone financially/emotionally supporting their family, and you will have someone with less bagage than someone, with 8 younger siblings.
Does the person have alot of siblings? If yes, they will be very knowledgeable with family politics, if no, then they will not be so experienced. Its a generalization, but its what I have observed.
Where does this person work? Does he/she work long hours? If they have a good job, and work long hours you know that they are somewhat hardworking and career oriented. If so, they will want nice quite weekends. VS someone who works an easy job, and will want to hang out with his or her family on the weekends.
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Has he had much contact with the opposite gender?
(Who'd want a socially-awkward loser who becomes fixated with random girls)
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can she zoomba dance?
his ferrari has wings?
Girth.
No but seriously, I think willing to relocate is an important one for me. Relocating can be extremely difficult. I know some who find relocating to be a deal breaker so its definitely a question id be thinking about.
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Debt/Student loans...I've been hearing that this is becoming a bone of contention in the rishta process
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In the absence of lie detectors, ask to your hearts content, you will be told whatever you like to hear.
How willing is he to help out at home. Can he , does he step up when the time is right ? How does he deal with stress , bury his head in the sand or man up. Time management ??
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Girth.
No but seriously, I think willing to relocate is an important one for me. Relocating can be extremely difficult. I know some who find relocating to be a deal breaker so its definitely a question id be thinking about.
Are you asking, what I think u r asking, that would be a hell of a leap.
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good, maybe itll rid of the evil, good for nothing process.
Debt/Student loans...I've been hearing that this is becoming a bone of contention in the rishta process
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Do she express romantic feeling and make an effort or just a boring ****?
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Debt/Student loans...I've been hearing that this is becoming a bone of contention in the rishta process
This is a good one. Marriage is a contract, so knowing whether you'll be liable for someone's debt is critical. I'm not suggesting it's a deal breaker but it's important.
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Are you asking, what I think u r asking, that would be a hell of a leap.
wooooshhhh
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sugarhness?
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That was a typo. The cat is still pawing to type. OP meant Sugarhity, I am sure.