Re: Ummmm delima
hello i had the same problem...what i did was have an engagement there...came here did the wedding w. ruksat, reception, mehndi, and hten a few months later did valima in pakistan. i dont know if u can go back and forth like that but keep in mind fiance visa is way quicker...my fiance came w.in 7 months.....husband/wife i hear takes up to 3 yrs sometimes! or if u do the ruksat and nikkah there (dont tell anyone!!! cuz u want him to get here quicker) good luck.