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in fact that is the best advice so far.
That will earn you respect in your hubby's eyes.

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I agree that it is weird for your friend's husband to add you if you only know him through her.

That said, you should go ahead and add him and not make a big deal out of it. However, do limit any chatting with him, and if you do happen to chat with him, make sure the conversation somehow revolves around your friend and keep mentioning your husband.

I would not be comfortable if my husband added my friend who he knows only through me.

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Aisha I find it weird that your friend's husband has added you in his friend's list. I am not norrow minded or any thing. I have more male colleagues in my group than females. Some of them are just professional colleagues but, many are really good friends. I go out with them for coffee and other official stuff. My hubby knows about that and is okay with my professional interactions. Some times we all hangout together as a group. I have many guy friends from my college and university days. They all are married and I am still intouch with them. However, your friend's husband is not your friend. He is your friend's husband simple and plain. These relationships are very delicate and sometimes complications arise. My advice to you is just ignore his request. Do not feel bad for doing this as you are not obligated to him.

In the begining in ancient times boys had brains too but, they stopped using it . So they LOST it.

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desikilaam and princessjojo I find it weird too.

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DONT ADD ! ! ! !

are u married :konfused:

in such case... if i would be in ur place i wouldnt add him

You must be joking right?

First you put your photos online on public forums for thousands of people to see it. And then later you on you moan about it???

What a hypocrite....

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Do not judge a book by it's cover, that's what I would say to you ^ :) Unless you are a multinick, you do not know me. You are a newbie. Let's keep it that way. Do not say things about me. Will appreciate it.

OMG LOL YOU ARE A MULTINICK! I know :)

You have not visited my profile, you just have 30 something posts so how would you know I have photos or not....

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I don't know you yeah you are right! And i am not judging you either!

But i guess if the picture in your avator is yours then i am right?

And if not then i take my comments back :)

And lastly Facebook is a public site? No?

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You are right but can you see my face? :S WHAT :S the only reason the avatar is even up is because the face is not visible… facebook is a public site but my profile has restricted access… I make sure of that… but then again.. people have seen my face:hmmm: will change the avi :hmmm:

sorry we started on the wrong foot… ur a multinick:smack:

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1stly Yeah you can see the face but it's not very clear.

2ndly: I have no right to comment on you, since it's your personal life - u do what u wish to do

3rdly: I was only repling to your thread and i guess my reply was not a good one - sorry

4thly: Whats a multinick?

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I actually put this avatar because some girl on GS who had not even seen me was calling me butt ugly so wanted to tell her that Yo listen up woman, me not butt ugly at all...

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You shouldn't have editted that. Public deserves the right to know!

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if you're not comfortable, don't add him. friend's husband? he's not even a relative.