Umera Ahmed's Kankar

[Krypton]

Re: Umera Ahmed’s Kankar

@Touche

donno, if its just me but I think arzoo is making a lot more effort to be good a good wife than kiran… except for one occasion she has never been shown to answer back or argue with him whereas kiran did that on multiple occasions… I am not talking about the stand she took but other occasions when she is shown to be a bit hot tempered and quick to argue… just a general word of advice for the females out there: and before you all start bashing me, I went through it and I know how wrong spousal abuse is and how traumatic is it for the woman undergoing it is NOT ACCEPTABLE under any circumstances… BUT sometimes women themselves are responsible for flaring the man’s temper and precipitating it, a colleague of mine whom I know quite closely, married for 4+ years … a normal marriage, no history of abuse or anger issues but she has sharp tongue, kind of “batoon main udhaar na rakhni wali, do ki chaar sunany wali kind of” she almost prides herself for it, recently I came to know that her husband hit her on two occasions…she had been after her husband to clear a promotion exam and when he failed , she went after him using sharp words…it blew up into violent fights…

are you oblivious?

THEY BARELY COMMUNICATE. when is he gonna find tme to hit her?

and as soon as he get the opportunity…he does..now what do you have to say