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PunchingMonk: A brotherly advice, put your energies towards something positive. A hard workout is good for exertion, venting, anger management, frustration and libido control.
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good point!
her mom kicked my butt thoroughly. Girl(A) moved to different city.
PunchingMonk: A brotherly advice, put your energies towards something positive. A hard workout is good for exertion, venting, anger management, frustration and libido control.
I ran 6 km today, still awake like an owl.
I think PS thread "not happy camper" is contagious!!!
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Im not sure...
If you say something now, what might happen is she will grow even more resentful and unhappy in her relationship and might even blame you for her current predicament. If she is really unhappy, she needs a friend. You can help her and that would be a good way to maybe make it up to her.
Also, I think she must have gotten rishtas and all through her parents too. How could you scare those off? I dont think the responsibility lies completely on your shoulders...she willingly married someone else.
I would say, just be there for her. :)
I ran 6 km today, still awake like an owl. I think PS thread "not happy camper" is contagious!!!
Ran 6 km and cant sleep? thats seriously serious.
Haven't seen the thread you are referring to.
Ran 6 km and cant sleep? thats seriously serious.
Haven't seen the thread you are referring to.
thats all PS's fault. She is making ppl sleep less with her thread. ha ha
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hmmmmmmmm
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^ ?
A girly kind of thread.
I had this friend who was a girl (R).(not girl friend)(NO S word) I use to hang out with her almost 24/7. Pll even thought we were secretly married. Her stupid aunt try to convince me to refer her(R) as sister. I told them NO only relation by birth are real , other then that relations are not "mutebaar"(respected).
Well that's not ugly yet. Next part like any girl she started liking me , or may be she did like me to begin with. But she wasn't good enough for me(I thought back then) Now unwilling to own(APNANA) her I still wanted her around. So I used to "repeal" all the guys around her. Thats how I used to do that. When ever she got attracted to some one OR some one got attracted to her I would make them leave. Being a guy I knew what to do with out girl(R) noticing it. I mean being around her when she is trying to call some guy. Showing those guys how close/comfortable me and her were. Driving her car all day. Have my stuff in her car cd, skates running shoes. etc . Idea was to let the guys feel my presence around her. She being silly(girls are silly) never stop her self to mention me as "friend" to other guys. So no guy could stick around!! Mission acomplished!!!
Not that I did not suffer because of that un-natural alliance. I was In love with this other girl A. A and her family saw me driving R's car, hanging out with her half a million times. Girl(A) still put up with this and invite me to see her mom. Off course mom was not in love with me and I got my butt kicked.
Now first girl (R) went back to her child hood love a guy she had left long time ago. And married her. Thanks to ME she could not find a decent person. Because I made her my property with out making any commitment.
Now with 2 kids she is miserable with her hubby 80% of the time, Should I admit what I did? and apologize to her??
Cuz I think my self as a "good" person so I did NOT make physical relation with the girl during that time . I thought by avouiding Physical contact I was fulfilling my duty. But now when I see her miserable I know what impact that unholy alliance had on her life. sigh Its just sad
Playstation: should I go write it in a blog?lol PlayStation2: did not sleep enough and nothing better to do.(so parden me if its incedibly stupid thread) playstation 3: I did respect her physically and on day to day basis, but if I look back now, I did not respect her life.
Did you ever have any discussion before her marriage of you and her being engaged, married ?
It would be unusual if not, considering 24/7 time spent.
Besides I always doubt the so called platonic relationships.
(Somewhere I have discussed before. She might not be pretty or all feminine type)
Agree with most of people above. Stay away from her. Do not pick up the phone.
Think about her husband. You would not want your wife to have this kind of past and still be calling a man. Please don't tell us he knows all about it. That would be even more weird.
No need to make up now. Chances are if you really wanted to make up by apologizing, you would have by now, after getting her calls every so often.Even you know its either too late or worthless. That is good.
Let her live her so called 80% miserable life. This 80% miserable life story may just be a fake one from her side.
Who knows she might have been more miserable with someone else anyway.
Many women live a miserable life without anyone to be blamed for from the past.
Both of you spent time together at your will and neither should you feel bad nor she be considered as victim.
why does she still call you.... i dont get it...
cant she find a girl to talk to.....
what is her husband's take on this
our religion doesnt allow friendship between guys n girls for a reason .....
Ran 6 km and cant sleep? thats seriously serious.
Haven't seen the thread you are referring to.
Jaanwar Sahab,
If you go into Health and Fitness forum, you will see my thread...
Im not a happy camper these days...
Its because Im a self-proclaimed insomniac!
And now Ive gotten poor PM hooked too!
Jaanwar Sahab,
If you go into Health and Fitness forum, you will see my thread...
Im not a happy camper these days...
Its because Im a self-proclaimed insomniac!
And now Ive gotten poor PM hooked too!
PSquared sahiba, thank you for the navigation. Will take a peek and add a gem or two soon :D
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Girls aren't as stupid as you think they are.
She chose her friendship with you over all those other relationships. I'm sure those guys gave some indication as to why things ended between them, that they were weirded out by the relationship that the two of you had. These other guys probably didn't mean as much to her as her relationship with you, so she let them go.
Boys are rarely as slick or as smooth or as subtle as they think they are. Girls are the ones that can deal in nuance.
Now she probably let these other relationships go thinking that your possessiveness meant that one day you would be with her, and that you would come to realize that you wanted more than friendship with her.
At some point or another, she seems to have realized that even that lame guy she knew way back when is worth more than you. I highly doubt she is miserable because of you. I think the most that you can do is to help her build a happier marriage. Dredging up old feelings and overcomplicating the situation is not good.
And pray for forgiveness. Change your behavior so that it is more mature and responsible.
why does she still call you.... i dont get it... cant she find a girl to talk to.....
what is her husband's take on this
our religion doesnt allow friendship between guys n girls for a reason .....
Exactly she should!! but girls are incredibly stupid they love to live in some king of fools paradise.
could not agree with you more.
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Ahhh, I’ve tried reading this thrice already. Just can’t. Another day.
PM you always ask people to summarize - now it’s your turn dude. :halo:
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^ whoever does it, mark me a copy :D
well unholy alliance cause damage to both girl and boy.
MOSTLY girls.
Girls have problem letting go.
After all that I am not so bad!!
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LOL @ Unholy alliance.