I am getting married in january, I am ofcourse khaffa, like every other bride, about leaving my parents home… even the thought of leaving my parents makes me insecure and very sad (they will be in europe and I’ll be in pakistan). My family knows how sensitive I am despite that my brothers are very rude, witty and fighting with me all the time these days. Maybe they are just too happy that I’ll leave them…
errr you want to be treated any differently to usual?
Be glad they aren't treating you differently. O and also be glad you aren't a new lotto winner, or goodness knows how u'd "Expect" them to treat you.
Basically they are being siblings, I am not getting married and mine always fight and bicker with me. Maybe they are just glad I can beat them up efficiently and casue leigons of pain.
Yep I agree wid hiccup , If they ll start treating u differently u ll be more upset and sad … and belive me they r not happy abt u leaving them , maybe they dont want u to know how they feel 
..I know its hard 
…wish u all the best ..
wow u getting married?....
aww bless u chick
maybe they are fighting and being rude to u because of the fact that ur leaving, sometimes ppl dont know how to express their sadness and find other outlets..in ur case, being mean to u. Maybe this is just their way of coping with the fact that ur getting married. With my brother its a lot harder for him to be nice to me than it is being mean to me..as most of the time he doenst know how to react..but he is younger than me!
Nobody ever gets happy when one of their siblings/daughters/sons..ect are leaving..this is their way of coping.
i spent three years away from my younger bro and sisters..i never rang them once though..it was a lot harder speaking to them without being near to them..everybody has different coping mechanisms (spelling??)
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aww
yaar sibling fights happen in every house so dont take it to heart, tho i know u r prolly getting sentimental abt it since u’re leaving 
been there done that, my younger brother and i STILL fight sometimes ]im 23, he’s 21!!!] even tho we both “aik doosray pe jaan chirakhtay haen”
and yah sometimes its their way of expressing their luv and seeking ur attention as well
plus you know, BOYS are jus dumb we girls r the samajdaar and akalmand sabar walyaan so we just gotta be patient and forget abt it coz boys will be boys
shadi mubarak
be happy your siblings even talk to you
i only have one brother and we barely even talk 
There could be two possibilities:
- either your siblings are upset because you'll leave..in their hearts they feel it but can't really tell you..maybe, it could be their inside frustration that's letting them do these things.
*sometimes siblings do feel happy ..koi toknay wala nahi..more free space for themselves etc..and they think its a great change but later on they do miss their sister in many ways. (recently happened with one of my cousin)
hugs Blushing vision …it’s alright sweety..You will be fine. 
Why will your parents be in Europe by the time you get married??
All girl replies so far…
I think a guy’s input will be very valuable at this point 
I don’t know about the feeling, as I don’t have a sister 
does every girl feel that way? as much as i love my parents, the fact that i will be leaving this house one day doesnt scare me :-s
kiya pata woh asa is liay kar rahay hoon takay app ko un ki kami mahsoos na ho ... Agar woh app ko bohot pyar show karan gay tou janay kay waqt app unko bohot miss karain gi ...
aww bv inshAllah everything will be fine. you’re starting a new life, embrace it, you’ll miss your parents and siblings but you’ll see them now and then. Have faith in Allah.
Thnx ppl 
I feel alot better now
Dimagh_HotaToNa: We live in germany, and it’s just me moving 2 pak not them 
Code yahan aap ki sab behnain tow hain.
^ kuch Khalaa bhi hain :)
Where is My Invitation hummmm 
Januray ke liye abhi se Invitaion dedo… Warna baad maiN I wont have time on my TIME TABLE 