Typical growing up male prob? or is it not? ...

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ok here is quite an embarrassing personal problem plz be mature and sensible about it.

ok before i tell u the problem let me give u some backgroud info which might help:

i DONT watch,listen,look or think (delibrately) about any inappropraite material (never) (well apart from silly little games… little violence and gore… and NOTHING more). i dont masturabate unlike a lot of people (thanks god). i dont have wet dreams (apart from few (3) incidences) i sleep properly on my right side (i try to ) and not on my belly. I dont have any erotic dreams or anything (i can remember 4-5 in my life.. dont know the cause of those (nothing too preverted ) ). More than half of the time before sleeping i read quran (translation only..mostly)… and i dont think about anything obscene (usually

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so here is the question keeping the above in mind: that … why the hell ..when i wake up ** sometimes ** i.e. 1/5 times (i think) ** which is still quite a lot ** that i have a stupid errection by the time i wake up(and its not just semi errect

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and i seem to be in an aroused state… which lasts 10-20 seconds until i get up from my bed… especially in holidays) …WHY?

i seem to have no control over this i mean what if i go some where i.e. relatives and what will ppl infer about me ?

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… ** i have (almost) full control over my desires i dont feel any lust or any thing … **obviously ( i am a male and a human ) there is some element of facination into sex however i dont feel any desperation or any facination with obscene things i.e. through internet, cable, books, magzines e.t.c… i despise and totally hate everything that promotes women as objects and i feel pain and anger at looking at all these adverts and programs… i mean what the froog has a spa mineral bottle got in comman with a naked woman?.. and why the hell do we have heineken(sp) beer being promoted by these teenager girls with nothing on but banana leaves???.. it is crazy… where are we heading. do we want to view women like this.. its so sad and heartbreaking… and hate this world..

digressing from the main topic there…

so y the hell is this happeing to me… its so frustrating and confusing.

is this natural or somthing is wrong here… the info i have given is correct as far as i know… what is wrong

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… am i alone in this silly little problem or do other adolescent bros share my views and experince..

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.. sad…

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I don't think there is anything wrong here. If it were the other way round, then its definitely a problem. In your next wellness visit to your doctor, ask him about it, but I doubt if there is anything physically wrong with you.

What you can do is, if practical, after you wake up, give yourself 5-10 minutes in the bed before climbing out. That is enough time for your mind to take control and calm everything down.

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physcially wrong??? is there a possibility of that!!!.. but i am fine and ok…

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so i am the only one… u dont have the same experience… hmmm

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..scary

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“What’s the story Morning Glory…” Nice song by Oasis.

em, you seem fine to me.

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hey woman… this is STRickly a ** MALES ONLY THREAD **… no nosy females allowed …especially no kitties

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Well from what I gather through speed reading your thread, your worried about the morning erection. Correct?

This is quite normal for every male to have an erection before they get up. It doesn't have anything to do with you being sexually aroused. Its just something which us guys have on a day to day basis till we grow old and become well to be honest a noodle. So I'd say enjoy it while you have your youth.

Heck, an erection can occur anywhere without you thinking dirty thoughts. You have no control over it at times. All I can say is that its normal.

I came across a Cosmo magazine (yes at work) that had a remedy where a guy just threw a cold towel on himself to rid of the erection.

Sometimes these erections can be painful pulling up testicles in a knot in the wrong direction and the only thing you can do is wait it out till they somehow untangle. (Men's Health)

Ok DM's callin' I'll tell u more on this later.

Jitna Diya Sarkar Nay Mujko, Itni Meri Auqat Nahi, Yeh Saab Tumhara Karam Hai Aqa, Mujh Mein Aisi Koi Baat Nahin.

Love happens once . . .

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cool thanks coconut…that was informative

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You should be worried if you dont get them. that is mother natures System test " All systems working AOK"

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[QUOTE]
Originally posted by GammaDilation:
( and i seem to be in an aroused state... which lasts 10-20 seconds until i get up from my bed...

why is 10-20 second interlude so disturbing to you? You probably spend 20 seconds in your first yawn after waking up...so its probably all fine by then.

what if i go some where i.e. relatives and what will ppl infer about me ?

Thats a 20 second segment we are talking about. Just wait 20 damn seconds before going in front of anyone.

especially in holidays)

Youre obviously taking too many holidays. Get a job....fulltime, that is.

[This message has been edited by Akif (edited January 10, 2002).]

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This reminds me - when I used to go to school, at times (very rarely), I would get an erection whilst sitting in the bus!!! It was very embarrassing. It was not because I had any filthy thoughts (although I do not confess to being as pure and pakeeza as GD)- quite the contrary I would try to think of the most boring thing I could think of but would it go down- never!!! I had to use my school bag as cover whilst getting off the bus!

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Gamma man are you alright!?!?
What makes you think getting an erection in the morning is wrong or unhealthy???

It is perfectly normal and everyone has it.

Man where have you been brought up???? you're scaring me!!!!

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**inglandya_No.1 **

yeah

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i have had the same bus experience… few times … more than few times actually. Erections suck

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** alizadeh2000 **

hmmm… thanks… i am scary huh ?

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… in what way

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People often think that erection means sexual arousal. Yet the lion's share of teenage erections have nothing to do with being horny or wanting sex. For instance, most guys wake up in the morning with an erection. Some says its because of dreams, I don’t think its related to dreams, how in the world one can get an erection on dreams like being chased by robbers or getting an F in chemistry?

The main reason for the morning erection is the body attempt to control urination while sleeping. You will notice, after voiding normally it returns back to flaccid state. So keep the bladder as empty as possible with an extra trip or two to the bathroom during the night.

Some says early morning "reminder" is best handled by the rapid application of an ice pack on the testicles, (try next time sleeping next to the fridge)

its all normal.

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ice pack???

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… now thast what i call being cool

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…thanks

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Ice pack??? Just don't damage your baby-making capabilities.

Cat ducks and runs out of the thread.

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I’ll go ask Dick maybe he knows why it happens …

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Its our Wits that make us MEN … ‘Braveheart’

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which nonce would actually go the trouble of applying an ice pack to his family jewels?

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Cat-woman spotted again?.. god i hate annoying little kitties

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… go away kitty … huh… Females

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… who needs them

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ROFL…well said yar

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Kambakht Ishq!

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[quote]
Originally posted by cat-woman:
Ice pack??? Just don't damage your baby-making capabilities.

Funny cat should mention this but it actually does the opposite. The scrotum is on the outside because it needs to be cool and not at 98.6 degrees body temperature. So its safe to say 6-10 degrees it cool enough to produce ample sperm. Keep in mind that your diet also plays a factor on sperm count. In terms of underwear, its best to go COMMANDO! or just boxer shorts and not boxer briefs or speedos and any other numbing gear that would make it impossible for the twig and berries to function properly.

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Jitna Diya Sarkar Nay Mujko, Itni Meri Auqat Nahi, Yeh Saab Tumhara Karam Hai Aqa, Mujh Mein Aisi Koi Baat Nahin.

Love happens once . . .