Types of Timaardar

Mirza Ghalib said:

Unke aa jane se aa jati hai chehre pe ronaq
wo samajhte hain beemar ka haal acha hai

so there are certain types of teemardaar. One who are referred by Ghalib, jin ke aane se beemar acha acha feel karta hai.

Bano Qudsia mentioned three categories of Timardaar:

  1. Muhabbat ke hathon majoor ho ke aaya huwa teemardar (One who visits out of love)

  2. Logon per neki ka asar daalne wala teemar daar (who visits to show his virtues to people)

  3. Farz ko nibahne wala teemardaar (one who visits as he considers it his duty to do so)

What type of timardar are you? have your attitude changed while visiting different patients?

What was your experience of timardaari, when you got ill?

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I am third type of Timardar…

It effects temporary… when visiting a beemar… :sid:

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1st of all, i cant see bemaarz, so i always avoid them. But if my parents force me to go with them, then u can take me as 3rd type of temaardar.

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aap ko aap jaisa timardaar mil jae to?

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why can't you see beemar people.. aap khud beemar nahin hote?

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:alhamd: kahain gain…

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hum insaniat ko dukhi nhe dakh saktay :khumar:

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i do teemaardaarii for the pleasure of Allah and for the comfort of the sick fellow human being. nothing less and nothing more. the desire to do teemaardaarii is a God given gift...not all the humans have that naturally...most do it in order to fulfill a responsibility.

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I hope you just speak salees Urdu before beemars :D

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I have a bit of a dumb question. If one works in the medical field (i.e. doctor, physician's assistant (PA), etc.) and visits the ill, is one considered a timardaar?

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If not as a part of professional duty, but moral obligation.. then yes.

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I think so.... If intentions are "Timardaari"...

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lolz...i volunteer at a local hospital on a regular basis [once a week for an hour] where i visit sick N dying patients and talk to them in English because they are all goras. no Desis.

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I heard meeting unknown and stranger people doesn’t leave good impact oh patient’s health :hmmm: How do you volunteer then?

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:k:

Do you only visit male hospital?

Udhar Gori nahi hoti… :5:

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That’s not necessarily true. It depends on the individual patient. If the patient is in a delicate condition and has had visitors restricted, that may be the case. Otherwise, unknown people visiting the patient do not impact the patient’s health. After all, most medical staff are unknown.

As far as volunteering, hospital volunteers briefly visit patients and ask if there is anything the patient needs/wants, and if so, gets it for them and things of that nature.

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since the visit by doctors/nurses on 'rounds' is part of their duty for which they are paid so it won't count as 'teemaardaari'. if they do visit on their own time and for the benefit of the patients then yes it will count as one.

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we do NOT discriminate…jawaan laRkiyoN se le kar buDDhii aurteN tak hotii haiN…aap vaise kahnaa kia chaahte haiN! :wink:

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I think medical staff fall under expected visitors category.

Why Volunteering is not popular in our part of world? May be people here have different psyche. Contact by a stranger and asking for your needs may hit someone's ego. But again when your own people leave you alone (which is also getting place in our society), then people do want company. Be it strangers.

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A couple of possible reasons:
-- In developing countries, people are not really encouraged to work for free nor are they keen on it and volunteering, is, in essence, working for free.
-- Volunteering does not really open doors for you and thus, people are less inclined to do it. In contrast, here, it can. You can make contacts and said contacts may be able to help you later on when looking for a job. It also looks great on a resume.