Two Techniques to Address Harsh People

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Technique 1: To address with mild words of gentleness

He, the Al Mighty said, *
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And the slaves of the Most Beneficent (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility and sedateness, and when the foolish address them (with bad words) they reply back with mild words of gentleness.
( سورة الفرقان , Al-Furqan, 25: 63)***

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Technique 2: To turn away from them and seek His Mercy*****

And if you turn away from them to seek mercy from your Lord, which you hope for, speak to them a gentle word (Surah Al-Israa 17 : 28)***

Are we the slaves of the Most Beneficent who walked on earth with humility? Have we addressed the harsh people around us with mild words of gentleness?

Think about it.

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Re: Two Techniques to Address Harsh People

What if that also doesn't work (meaning they continue to be harsh)

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^ Treat everyone with kindness, even those who are rude to you –not because they are nice, but because you are

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^ that is always true. So why do we then need any 'techniques' against harsh people?

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^ we need 'techniques' to 'get smart' against harsh people.

Congratulation devilish angel on her 5K
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good one

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nice....

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And the servants of Allah... are those who walked on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say 'Peace'"... Quran, 25.63"

same verse but I think the tafseers different,

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The word "Darguzar" in urdu means "to hold very hard". One should hold "forgiveness" so hard that it might take real effort for a misbehaving person to be able to loosen the forgiver's hold from this sunnah of the Prophet (saw)...

Out of the limited time, energy, emotions and concentration that Allah (swt) has blessed us with each day, why should we waste a part of them in useless arguments, negative thinking and wastage of emotions, when we can preserve them for good deeds...I don't blame the child, it is not his fault that he treated me in such a manner. Actually, Allah (swt) tests everyone's patience and HE tested mine through this man.