Re: Two Serious Problems
^ That would be the best approach in getting help for her, although I dont know how the system works in UAE.
At this point, sorry to say, the damage is done. If she has the child, it will be impaired. And seeing her depressive state, she probably wont be able to care for it. The kid will have to be put up for adoption, unless she can get her act together. She is in a grind, and she wont be able to do it on her own.
She needs alcohol rehab right now. Which means she'll have to be put inside a cell or a room and not let out until her addiction dies out. I don't know how many days they do this for. Nor do I know if they have this system available in UAE.
If the doctor saw what she was going through, and there was some system established for these kinds of cases (I doubt it), then he would have recommended it. Call up the biggest hospital system in your area and talk to one of their counselors or doctors about the situation - let them know what is going on. Also, contact law enforcement (although again, I dont know if they'll just beat the crap out of her for unIslamic behavior).
I'm sorry to say this, but you've done way more than anyone else would do - even her own parents have left her. Just relax, and don't feel obligated to adopt her child.
She's old enough to realize what she is doing. She's just going to regret it later.
The best you can do is try to stop some of the effects from taking place. She's made one mistake, then another, then another - and its causing a domino effect - other things in life are going to be effected which she wont have control over (like her child's heath).
How many months is she along?