The bar has been raised to heights unparalleled!
Id want someone who is not a traditional guy! (Starts all the horror stories) let me find him before making amends to myself, if i have even the tiniest of issues in my self.
Wake up and smell the truth! All of us have stopped making that lil effort on our selves to make it work! We have found confides in others experience and have actually started to believe, it happened to everyone so it will happen to me!
Yeah so, someone has had a bad experience going through relationships! (Need i quote the social paradigm that makes humans bi pass their ability to see their own mistakes in an opposing/ unwanted outcome) I am sorry but what iv witnessed is the change of perception from ones own side as well! You are still to FIND a life partner, already with a perception of “oh lord! There families will be mean to me”, talks of wicked husbands/ wives, and there presumed evil families! I mean come on people! You have started believing on something that hasn’t even surfaced and bi passed the bigger picture. People change! Its a part of the whole growing up and learning theory, ever since you were enough to understand life you bin spoon fed with the horrible side of the world making you already defensive to the upcoming!
I am sorry to inform you!
Look onwards with an already negative head, you will end up finding what you dread.
Try thinking about this keep the following in mind:
- Start forming your life, believe in Good! If you are good, youl end up in Good!
- Lower your standards for the love of God! If we weren’t flawed we wouldn’t have bin human!
- Next time use empathy before judgement!
- No she did not mean bad and evil its your head telling you!
- Oh yeah someone is evil lets see you not running away from actually TRYING to change them or there perception!
- Come on kids its not fiction! All i see in you is complain, who of you actually tried hard enough to satisfy yourself atleast (ones who think they did wont actually go around spreading it to the world)
- Be sincere to yourself! Forget anyone else first.
Id end by saying, stop relying on miracles to bump into perfection, become perfection yourself first!
“Man is an amazing creation, only if he realises it”
Peace up people!