Guys I need some relaxing words… My ruksati is on Saturday inshallah. I dunt even have words about how I feel like. I have been waiting for this moment but Im so nervous and scared too. Scared of God knows what. I feel happy and sad at the same time. I am moving to New Jersey with my husband. I cant really digest anything anymore.
On Monday right before my dholki I had one of those anxiety attacks. I cried my heart out. I missed my parents so much. I wish they were here to see me getting married. I just feel like running away from everything and go to my dad. But he is not even in this world anymore. I dunt want to look so damn nervous in front of guest. I dunt want to cry like a kid at the time of ruksati. I just need something from you guys. Some words that could make me feel better.
awwww, it happens to every girl before she gets married. I personally am not married yet, but my brother is getting married in 2 weeks and bringing home my bhabhi and all I can say to you is think about the person/people who are excited because you are going to become a part of their life, think about the happiness that you are giving those people. At the same time, a new life doesn't mean you forget the old, your parents will always be a part of your life, and I'm sure you're dad would be jumping in joy if he was here with you today. Congratulations on getting married, and I pray that everything go smoothly this weekend, good luck for the future, and I hope my words made a difference!!!
Hey cherrybell, it's perfectly normal to feel like that before you get married, life as you know it is a about to change enormously, but it's usually a better change, even if you cannot understand it right now.
If you do want to cry at the ruksati, it's not a big deal, that's what it's for, cry your eyes out, give the guests something to get their teeth into, you will have them bawling as well!
Wishing you all the very best for your marriage and future, all will be well, inshallah.
Hey Hun, make sure u pray beforehand it'll make u feel better IA. ty thinking of hw lucky u are that its all gone well for you and how much uve waitied for this day its perfectly fine to feel emotional but try and get some control over urself and go with the flow. May Allah swt bless ur marriage and hope everythign falls into place on the day ;-)
....Then u have to tell us all about the wedding on GS.
Inshallah everything will go smooth and lots of dua’s for you and your husband. Cry anytime you feel like, it’s natural. You’ll make a gorgeous bride Inshallah!
