Re: Twilight-type Issue
Women like, want, and crave attention more than your average human being (i.e. men). Much more. And get it of course. And like it even more. That’s how & why most of the guys in their circle are oh-so-sweet. But all that is besides the point.
To the OP: You really don’t want to be the backup guy. Women normally like to keep their options open and specifically designate, in their minds, a backup option (or two), should the first one not work out for them.
Even if you get her finally, you will always be the 2nd choice, the backup, and possibly a doormat. So, you really don’t want to be in this situation. Move away from her. May be she will follow you then if she feels strongly about you.