many of you people are going through rishta process.
what make(reason) you feel turn off in possible spouse/rishta.
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Those who 'claim' to be Non-Religious Muslims
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Those who claim to be perfect Muslims.
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Haven't yet heard anyone who claims to be a perfect Muslim. Yes, seen many who claim to be non-religious Muslims. Seen a lot who at least 'try' their best to become good Muslims and are termed as'extremists' if they don't encourage bolly/holly/lolly wood culture
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I will tell you a funny turn-off! Once a guy came to my house with his parents. He was a real mama's-boy. His mom kept putting food on his plate, and telling him to eat it, and then she took a piece of samosa and fed him!
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hahah saimab33!
Maybe she was passing a message to the future DIL...that dekho this is how he likes to be "served."
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girl coming in the room with anchal in the teeth? acting all bail-bahooote? 
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Haven't yet heard anyone who claims to be a perfect Muslim. Yes, seen many who claim to be non-religious Muslims. Seen a lot who at least 'try' their best to become good Muslims and are termed as'extremists' if they don't encourage bolly/holly/lolly wood culture
True My friend was possibly rejected coz he told the girl he prays ... and she assumed he is extremist. He didnt even have a beard.
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OMG! That real happened? Lols.
OR perhaps she was showing off how ladla his son is 
and the mahan pyar between the two :D.
Hmm Filmy. Btw, wats bail-bahoote?
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Hmm Filmy. Btw, wats bail-bahoote?
Choie moie ..... touch me not :)
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Choie moie ..... touch me not :)
Oh Rite! I didnt know these two were synonymous.
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guys that are staring you up and down creepily.
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True My friend was possibly rejected coz he told the girl he prays ... and she assumed he is extremist. He didnt even have a beard.
I am also included in the hypocrites of the society (May Allah guide me). Most of such cases (of weak imaan, like me) would talk hours and hours on how much we love the prophet (saw), but anyone who tries to follow the prophet's step, they tend to run away from him/her. In other words, we are indirectly giving this message that the life of the Prophet (saw) looks good only in books, but not in real life (Nauzubillah) when we have to give sacrifices of our desires and temptations.
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hahahha saima.
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a complete bore bag. :nono:
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A turn off for me is someone who is very rigid in their views or way of life…meaning if I feel this person has no flexibility and is not willing to make adjustments in their life but only want me to make them in mine…I am turned off.
D6C - what on earth is that?
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I wanted to say what R.A.W said above
You are not supposed to touch before nikha. 
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the whole thing.
the humein larki acahi lagi part
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please explain. 