'tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein'

share your thought if you like, on people’s sense of entitlement to misuse your time for their own selfish reasons.

best,
Dushwari

Re: 'tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein'

If I am also free, I don't mind. But if I stopped my work only to find out that I am entertaining someone, then I would be upset.

Re: ‘tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein’

Wasting my time means he is wasting his own time and wasting his own time means that he is wasting his own free time that he can use for some other time.

I hope u r getting what i m saying … :chai:

Re: 'tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein'

.i think i' am always there for people that need me....I dotn really care if they are trying to use me for their selfish reasons..coz i have nothing to lose..infact from every action of mines i am learning sumthing..and its better to do something and get yr mind working than just wasting yr time doing nuthing:P

I would rather help someone and be used dan waste my time by doing nothing...waisay bhi sawab hi milay ga na help kerney ka:)..
and waisay bhi, it requires a lot of guts to help someone especiallly when you know that they r selfish...and they are only using to get their work done

Re: ‘tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein’

^^ Don’t u loss u’r mind …

Or is it in the same list of nothing to loss :chai:

Re: 'tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein'

lol..no i dotn mind:P...helping them:P...I gain sawab ...:)...waisay bhi..merii theory kehtii hai ..when u do good , u feel good..aur huemsha se i have noticed k mujhay faida hi howa hai..
Merii ethics ki story dekh lain app...The kid opened the door .. and ussmain se ussay kitna faida howa..scientifically and islamically, and society k lehaaz se bhi buhut faida howa....therefore...kabhii kuch acha kerney se nuksaan faiday se kum hoga:)
waisay bhi...what goes around comes around..

Re: ‘tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein’

^^ Sooooooo … u don’t mind … right ???

and its caus u don’t have one … or u have too much of it ??? :confused:

Re: 'tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein'

You can think what ever you want ..i dotn really care...i am what i am.......

Re: ‘tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein’

khud to farigh hain humein bhi farigh samjha hai:vivo:

Re: 'tum bhi ao, hem bhi a teye hein'

k337 ..i am not faarigh..i work full-time and study part time...!:)..itni busy hoon k khud k liyee time nahi!