Re: Tu jis Gher bhee bhiyah keye giya tow..
yes, in that context, it makes sense, as the rivaaj had been, Shikra bhai.
plenty of men these days, are not good son in laws or husbands.
and thus they are not nearly as much made to realize, that they need to be better human beings.
now, the question is, how does a man treat woman when they, hopefully, nobly marry a woman.
it is noble, when a woman is offered a proposal and is honorably married and decides to move in with her husband at his place. and/or with his parents and siblings. same could be true for a woman.
the shared space can be woman’s house or man’s house.
yes, in joint family system, it may all be couple’s respect for each other to respect each other and not allow any disappointment in understanding each other and indicating care and regard for each other.
reality is indeed what you said sipping tea. :>
best,
Dushwari