Re: trying to conceive
my story tried concieving 6 months into my marraige, was pregnant after 9 months of trying, however had a miscarraige after 3 months. 2 years later was pregnant again however this was a molar pregnancy and had to have a d and c. we then tried ivf, we have 3 chances here on the national health service. the first didnt get far enough to implant in me, as the embreos didnt develope. the same with the 2nd one. the doctors told me that they had given the most intense treatment the 2nd time round and nothing had happened therefore there was nothing they could do for me. was really depressed after that and left my job. then i started thinking of adopting, went to 1 meeting, where they discussed real issues of children, ie i thought i would adopt a baby and thats that, however most children that need adopting theese days have either pschological issues or physical isssues, i felt a little disheartened after this. i then thought a holiday would be good a change of scene might be good and would clear my mind in what to do next planned a trip to pakistan with hubby for 2 weeks. just before going was late for my periods didnt think nothing of it untill i mentioned it to my friend who was pregnant at the time she advised to do a test before i went just in case. long story short did a test on the day i was going to fly to find out the test was positive. i cried my eyes out so did my husband. i now have a beatiful daughter mashallah 2 years old and a beatiful son 6 months old.
even though the docs said there was nothing they could do for me Allah had different plans for me.
i would say inshallah dont be worried too much and pray beg allah for the kushee of a child in sukh some nafal. as i did if the delivery went well