There has been an eruption within the Pakistani community in Sydney where the bride to be has said that she wants to sleep/live over at the grooms house for about a month before they get married to see if he can look after her. Some people are questioning her morality, some even question her religion…but in the world where people make so many regrets after getting married should this be a viable option?
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**why bother to marry after a month...whats the difference in the world its gonna make...
paagaloN kii koiikamii nahiiN, ai Ghaalib!
ek DhoonDho, hazaar milte haiN!**
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Well everyone would be at their best behavior that month eh!
Khair, how stupid. KahiN ki malika haiN woh ki she wants to test everyone. What about herself? Is she sure she’s going to be an awesome wife? 
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Pointless.
Even if you want to forget religion because she doesnt seem to be very religious...it makes no sense.
How can you know in a month of living together whether this person is right for you? Furthermore, will she be taking care of all her "wifely" duties during that month?
Is she cooking, cleaning, managing the house and trying to prove herself to him?
Its all a bunch of baloney just to get some attention.
btw, there is also sex testing. Thats why I think there is an uproar.
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She wants to see his performance? Hmmm. Very interesting. Who is this jannat ki pari?
There has been an eruption within the Pakistani community in Sydney where the bride to be has said that she wants to sleep/live over at the grooms house for about a month before they get married to see if he can look after her. Some people are questioning her morality, some even question her religion....but in the world where people make so many regrets after getting married should this be a viable option?
waw, How lucky groom this Person is gonna be , and If he denies later on, then , what about the bride?
Definetly, she will have to come to the conventional way, the otherwise is that there are equal chances of getting rejected (may be completely rejected) again.
As NikSik said
" KahiN ki malika haiN woh ki she wants to test everyone" , and the Boy should also ask for the same , can enjoy two months in free.
I cannot understand the Parties, I donot know why ?
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A test drive before you make the downpayment. Neat! 
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See there I disagree and agree. The whole meeting with and getting to know the person before marriage is something I completely agree with. Living together is right on the edge of being a reasonable request since they will be gettinng married.
However who gives a damn what the Pakistani community thinks. Never met a bunch of narcassistic self-absorbed self righteous sons of *****es like those we have the pakistani community. Aunties and Uncles. Let them be in an uproar. Its about time everybody stopped being a judgemental dumbass.
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Yeah I see what your saying CM. But isnt having a sex test drive pushing it? One thing that got to my mind was that how would she know what 'sex' is like unless she has experienced it before. What is she comparing her sex test with? self masturbation? lol
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Oh btw, the girls father is a hafiz...so that makes it even more funny.
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This thing has "STUPID" written all over it.
This thing has "STUPID" written all over it.
Heyyy dont call slickstar these names!
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She isn’t calling him that you beejamalo 
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I know PS, I thought it was stupid as well. But apparently this stuff happens in the community. I only thought we should discuss the moral and ethical implications of what this girl wants.
Oh btw, the girls father is a hafiz...so that makes it even more funny.
why does that make it even more funnier?
load of crap honestly.
What does being a son or a daughter of a hafiz mean anything spectacular?? Judgemental laug na hon tho..
The girl has a brain of her own... idioticness cant be blamed on her father's parenting.
Also, being a hafiz does not mean ur kids are gonna turn out hijabi or mullah like.
I know PS, I thought it was stupid as well. But apparently this stuff happens in the community. I only thought we should discuss the moral and ethical implications of what this girl wants.
so is it news because a girl has said it? I thought most guys would be right up there with it?
Isnt her boyfriend supporting her in this whole thing? why aint his name mentioned?
pathetic
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This is an arranged marriage. They have never seen each other.
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Hey its her choice. Between her and her future husband. Why are you being an aunty? :p
Oh btw, the girls father is a hafiz...so that makes it even more funny.
Even More Funny you counts it.