so lets say this one nick that you dont blind trust but would interact most often on this forum and then had a chance to meet with him or her in real life? would you take your time to know him or her more in order to develop a trust or keep the same opinion as u had online?
lol. No its not b/c of blogging shlogging - its based on how much I have interacted with you. I havent judged you or I didn’t say that you are not what above said in real life or your are - I don’t know b/c I haven’t met you. But by reading your posts solely I have formed that opinion regarding your nick. Who knows you might be the most shareefest guy in real life
so lets say this one nick that you dont blind trust but would interact most often on this forum and then had a chance to meet with him or her in real life? would you take your time to know him or her more in order to develop a trust or keep the same opinion as u had online?
lol. No its not b/c of blogging shlogging - its based on how much I have interacted with you. I havent judged you or I didn't say that you are not what above said in real life or your are - I don't know b/c I haven't met you. But by reading your posts solely I have formed that opinion regarding your nick. Who knows you might be the most shareefest guy in real life :D
Trust me, you are not the only one. Those who have talked to me and know me think very differently.
that is exactly what I am trying to tell Lois from last 6 months by constantly PMing her every day. Only thing is that I start my PM’s with Dear Miss Lane… you know little buttering can go a long way ..
anyway, joke aside, the topic is something that I also think about. But to go forward on Riya’s point, double face people are double face, whether its real life or online. Trust is part of relationship that needs to be proven at very interaction, and can be broken at any incident. It can be built online or in real life. I dont see much difference.
Yes online trust can be taken with a little grain of salt, but then there is less on stake unlike real one where ou can loose so much if you trust a wrong person.
hmm lets take blogs or pictures for example. Girls on this site don’t post their pics much and are always hesitant to do so. And if they do then they make sure who are they allowing in their circle to see the pics. If someone leaks out a pic to one of their frens who were not part of Actual fren’s list then it becomes a problem. More ssevere then we can imagine, right?
so lets say this one nick that you dont blind trust but would interact most often on this forum and then had a chance to meet with him or her in real life? would you take your time to know him or her more in order to develop a trust or keep the same opinion as u had online?
I am at a point where I put my trust in Allah(SWT) only. I am past trusting humans. My trust has been broken by humans of all kinds, shapes and sizes. So now in my relationships I take calculated risk. When there is a need to put my trust in someone for some reason I make a calculation and leave the outcome on Allah(SWT).
hmm lets take blogs or pictures for example. Girls on this site don't post their pics much and are always hesitant to do so. And if they do then they make sure who are they allowing in their circle to see the pics. If someone leaks out a pic to one of their frens who were not part of Actual fren's list then it becomes a problem. More ssevere then we can imagine, right?
in this example, trust is a mutual thing then. I mean how do you know that the lady is posting her real pictures ..
but your point well taken,
though in reality, unless you have a real low life part of your blog list who can take and post pictures on questionable website, just leaking the picture wont be that big of a problem..
if I am not part of your blog and one day someone PM's me your pictures, I would be like "O so this is how Lois looks like" and that is it. What harm can I bring to you by looking at your pictures. Thousand of strangers look at your face in your office, school and neighborhood everyday.
Now if the picture is questionable to begin with, that is another thing then. Those girls should think twice before posting revealing pictures online, because webmaster, server owner and ISP providers can still access those pictures
yeah, meri wishes mein asar hota tab bhi aap different position mein hotay.
according to TLK its haram in some versions and makrooh in others.
My baccha does not log on GS, although he did post once in my blog.
I am a facade, not just a facade but also a fassad. but I am open about it. I think people appreciate the fact that I am open about my fraudiya loafer luccha lufanga awara ayaash aubaash ghunda badmaash self
. These were my initial thoughts about him and I thought he is one of JL's and ASN's kind [no offence]
Yes jaise aap nay maan behan ki gaalian dee theeN apny blog main, jispar aap ko ban hazam karna para. Agar ye kind pasand hai aap ko, to ayinda bhi same hi ho ga.
Yes jaise aap nay maan behan ki gaalian dee theeN apny blog main, jispar aap ko ban hazam karna para. Agar ye kind pasand hai aap ko, to ayinda bhi same hi ho ga.
that is exactly what I am trying to tell Lois from last 6 months by constantly PMing her every day. Only thing is that I start my PM’s with Dear Miss Lane… you know little buttering can go a long way ..
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