Trust/cheating

Hi
If a person is telling you they going there n there but they were somewhere else,and not only once if this happen every single day and for like everything single thing,like the person said they were at work but they weren’t,They are out for shopping but they weren’t.are they cheating? And will you trust this person and will you consider them for marriage?

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lol…you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure that out…you really can’t? seriously! :cb:

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Figure that out what?

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cheating? what u think? hehe

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And what cud be the reason they lying To me ?

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So u r sayin they r cheating?

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to get away from a clingy SO, isn't it?


of course...what else! :D

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No ,when someone is habbitual of telling lies everytime even about trivial matters,he isnt trustworthy enough to consider for marriage...

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Nope,she is not clingy,they speak once or twice a day and he will tell her he went here he went there he did this n that,but all lying and false stories.

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Should she tell him she knows he was and he is lying about everything?

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i said not him but his SO is clingy! :D yaar, chhoDDo usko...he is NOT worth it!

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This thread is about a guy who is lying,and his SO is not clingy.

Trust/cheating

Yes she should confront him, but make sure she has solid evidence/witness/ mobile phone video etc. when she does, as he will lie his way out of it. But start of casually as if you are generally enquiring and confused as opposed to being confrontational.

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may be her clingyness to him forces him to lie/cheat! :D

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never.

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No way. Dont trust him and stay away

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us kay paon chk kia kro jb wo bt kr reha ho k wo dono sath juray huey hn ya alehda alehda hn.

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Incase you missed my above post lemme repeat again ! None of them is clingy,and it's not like she want to hear every often I love you or I miss you which makes you think she is clingy,this is an serious issue.
Her concern is why he has to lie? He always tell her im taking my mom/sis to shopping/grocery but he never go anywhere he is at home whenever he says he is going somewhere,don't you think there is something serious than your assumption about this girl that she is clingy?

Oh and he always says he is baby sitting his sisters kids on weekend,changing dipers and making feeders and to my shock his sister or babi always take their babies with them where ever they go !Can someone tell me why he is showing her that he is a hero from movie hum sath sath hain?

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Yes she have all solid evidence,but she can't show him right now because then he will be alert,she want to see how far he is taking all this.

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Those are huge red flags and there is definitely something wrong if he lies EVERY time about whatever he's up to. You have to confront him but be prepared for major excuses. Just be prepared with proof if he tries to put it back on you.