Re: True sincerity from heart & Soul
u r right it can never b an easy decision for anyone esp a lady with smaller kids
Re: True sincerity from heart & Soul
I would have thought little kids are easier...Little kids will eventually like you but if they are already old they are significantly harder to win over...
If i was to see a single mum id much rather she had young kids...say 3-5 years old than a 15 year old...the kids will end up liking you the 15 yesr old who is grown will always see you as trying to take their dads place and will make a conscious effort to not like you...
Re: True sincerity from heart & Soul
u r right abt little kids get attach easily.teens tu even real parents k liay bhi sometimes hard to handle hotay hain.i was thinking from mom's prospect.ager stepmom garber keray tu a guy can handle but if stepdad baad main koi ziadtee keray tu women hav not much left but to compromise.I mean in the beginning everyone has soo many doubts haan ager sub aik dosray k saath adjust ho jaain tu life can b peaceful.
Re: True sincerity from heart & Soul
It was narrated in The Musnad by Imam Ahmad that the Prophet (peace be upon him) narrated that he asked Jibreel, and then he asked Allah (majestic in His praise) about sincerity, and He answered,** “Sincerity is a secret of secrets I stored in the heart of the ones I love among My servants.” **
“Whoever works for Allah’s sake sincerely for forty days, the fountains of wisdom will flow from his heart to his mouth.” (Narrated by Ibn Adii and, from the same chain, Ibn Al-Jawziah in *Al-Mawdoat* through Abu Musa.)
Re: True sincerity from heart & Soul
I think we all missed the point of this thread :(
Re: True sincerity from heart & Soul
^ me too :(