"true" love ?

[Gora_Kala]

Re: “true” love ?

@Mirch

Here is the hadees you are quoting:
Hadith - Recorded Ahmad and al-Tirmidhi. [Al-Albani says it is sahih. Al-Albani, Sahih al-Jami, vol. 1, p. 234.]

The Prophet said, "A man is never alone with a woman except that Satan is the third." 

This is talking about being alone with a na mahram . Love can be nurtured without being alone. In modern days there is telephone , internet where you are not alone with a na mahram but still you can be in love.
Also there can be zero interaction and love can be there. Love an be expressed with gestures , looks without talking or any physical interaction and contact.
You lot have to come out of your old world mentality , it is not going to work in these modern times and will take people away from religion because of your extremism instead of bringing them toward religion.

I highly doubt that the proverbial “True or platonic” love ever existed between a boy and a girl without a piercing perception of the gender and gobs of possibilities to enjoy the moments, be it a boy and a girl of five thousand years ago or a couple of this day and age the ingrained animal instinct cannot be tamed to a perfection where sensuality is lost in the perception of metaphysical “True Love”.

Being alone with a ‘Na-Mehram” is not merely a seclusion from other people behind a Curtin where no seeing eye can see, satanic imagination moves faster than speed of light, we have coined ways to expose our libido in a way that even Satan would feel impoverished and drained of “creative” ideas.

our youth can and does behave like the sons of Lucifer when alone on the phone or internet with an “accepting” member of opposite gender in the name of love, we live in a modern age where millions of kids born out of legitimate wedlock has been given a pretty name of “Love Child”.

Feeling of strong affection can neither be called true love nor be put to test beyond the limits.