Trip to pakistan soon,

[mabashir]

Re: Trip to pakistan soon,

@WendyDarling

I feel for you and I know what you’re going through. I lost my mother when I was very young too … she left us all her jewelry which we got after getting my fathers lawyers involved (my parents were divorced and the jewelry were at some relatives of moms place). My mom had a huge china collection, she had expensive clothing and beautiful home decor pieces which just magically disappeared after she past away. I know who these relatives were too .. I just don’t make a fuss … I don’t want to bring up old stuff anymore .. what’s gone is gone. Even though I know my mom would want me to have her things, she’s gone now and so are the things that belonged to her

About relatives not calling and all .. I’ve been through that too! NO ONE from my moms side of the family ever called me or my siblingonce my mom passed. They never even checked on us to see if we were alive and healthy (with the exception of my mamoo). And now since I married someone on my moms side of the family (a miracle we even met LOL) random aunty’s (moms cousins etc) always love to complain how I never call them to ask their haal chaal yeah right, like I even care!!! 10 years of not even asking if we were fine and you want us to start calling you and acting like we’re the closest people. And don’t get me started on how they love to rub it in me how them and my mom were the best of friends and were like sisters Just shoot me aunty ji.

rant over.

                         lol - love this reply. It is strange, how rellies do not remember you for a long time but when you see them they act like you are all best buddies..