Okay, so if a guy you know BOLTS like a rabbit every time he sees you (and you being a girl) what the hell does that mean?
in a very agitated mood
well if he bolts.. maybe hes overwhelmed by her beauty...
id say he lieks her
how do i get him to stay in one place??
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well if he bolts.. maybe hes overwhelmed by her beauty...
id say he lieks her
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Maybe it's the opposite...
yaar u need a lasso
i thought it might be because he feels uncomfy around me - but i haven't been mean to him ever. And he likes me - I'm somewhat certain of that - the whole chori chori chupke chupke dekhna syndrome - so then why the bolting??
GRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!
I'll be serious for a moment - The human is a miserable creature at times and all that misery comes from within himself...Right now you like him, find him cute blah blah and can't wait to talk to him and be friends with him, but the second he would come to you, and ask to be your friend would be the time you would be launched to a position of a goddess...You would look down upon that creature that once occupied your thoughts and act all important and hard to get...
This is not the only situation...Man in many circumstances loses out on many precious things because they come to him not realizing they might not return again, and when they don't, he rubs his hands and says, 'if only I had done such and such', but by that time it's too late...
But speaking strictly as a Muslim, stop all this aankh matkka at once and ask forgiveness from your Lord for your sins...I am sure your future husband-to-be, whoever he happens to be will appreciate it...
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But speaking strictly as a Muslim, stop all this aankh matkka at once and ask forgiveness from your Lord for your sins...I am sure your future husband-to-be, whoever he happens to be will appreciate it...
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Lajo,stop telling people what to do, people,whoever they may be would appreciate it.
^^ It is our duty to guide ourselves and each other to what is right...It may not be appreciated, but correct words are seldom appreciated...
P.S. And yeah, take your own advice too...:p
woah! I take offense to that. How do you know I'm the type of girl that will drop the guy once he starts talking to me. As a matter of fact, we do talk. Its just that he has the courage to do this ONLY when we're alone. In public, he bolts like a rabbit.
Secondly, are u implying that girls are the only ones to do that - what about all the guys who drop girls once they start paying attention to them?
Your comments in the past have always been misogynistic. I am not surprised at what I see here.
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i thought it might be because he feels uncomfy around me - but i haven't been mean to him ever. And he likes me - I'm somewhat certain of that - the whole chori chori chupke chupke dekhna syndrome - so then why the bolting??
GRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!
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I would also think he is feeling uncomfortable. Perhaps he just gets shy. Then again, you said he talks to you in private but not in public. Confusing. The male species are incredibly hard to understand. When you find out the real reason behind his behaviour, please do share it with us girls. :D
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woah! I take offense to that. How do you know I'm the type of girl that will drop the guy once he starts talking to me. As a matter of fact, we do talk. Its just that he has the courage to do this ONLY when we're alone. In public, he bolts like a rabbit.
Secondly, are u implying that girls are the only ones to do that - what about all the guys who drop girls once they start paying attention to them?
Your comments in the past have always been misogynistic. I am not surprised at what I see here.
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I have no clue which of my posts ever made you think I am misogynistic, but people have a habit of reading wrongly into things, like in this post I did not even mention a woman and I am labelled a misogynist...
And anyways, the only reason he bolts is because he probably wouldn't be caught dead talking to you...:D j/k...
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Give it time 
Some boys are timid and bashful or just not publically affectionate. Maybe he doesn’t want to be seen with you in public or by someone. Could be a few secrets here and there. He bolts for reasons we may not know. Could be wood, could be cramps from nervousness. Who knows. Lotta speculations really. I’d say be patient and keep your pants on (and i mean that in the nicest way possible, no offense seriously 
), he may just need time. Remember that you can only control one person, thats yourself and not him. Hope it works out for you both even if it is just short term
If you're already talking I'd chase em if I were you lol :p
Next time you guys are alone talking just ask him flat out... why he does that!? And be very gentle about it. Everyone needs reassurance.. let him know you get nervous and a little scared too at times.
It means he's being ridiculous.
Theres a limit as to how many times he can run away.
maybe he does not want for his girlfriend to see him talking to you.
ask him nicely next time ur alone with him why he does that… im sure he’ll go all red and embarrassed (how cute)… i think he’s prob just nervous.. some people fully ignore the person they like infront of others.. its just the way they deal with their feelings… i remember a good friend once liking me.. i used to run when i saw him haha 
I would try to make a little joke about it to him next time you talk privately. If he has no answer, and runs away again, trip him ;)
perhaps he thinks you might not give him the same attention as you do when you both are alone. soo instead of feeling ignored he prefers to avoid you in public. sooo you need to assure him that you are not a b|tch(just used to get my msg across..doesn't mean anything..) in the public too.
gluck!
on a side note giving him the address of this page would be the best and quickest solution to your dilemma